Extreme XXL Anal Cone 33 cm: review

Extreme XXL Anal Cone 33 cm in brief — this is what you get

Hidden Desire Extreme XXL Anal Cone 33 cm is a solid anal cone made of PVC, with no electronics, no battery, and no moving parts. The entire product is one single molded piece: a narrow, rounded top that grows through about fifteen ring-shaped ledges into a wide cone, and at the very bottom a flared base with a suction cup. The manufacturer is Dutch Hidden Desire in Wijchen, and the model is included in their series Extreme, which Hidden Desire themselves describe as XXL Anal Gear for anyone who wants to push boundaries.

The specification is short, and that’s not because we’ve left anything out. The manufacturer publishes three measurements and one material: total length 33 centimeters, Ø 5.5 centimeters on the narrower part and Ø 9 centimeters at the bottom of the cone, in smooth PVC with a wide base. The item number is 16875-BLACK and the list price in the manufacturer’s own store is 56.99 euro. That’s the entire product sheet — there is no weight, no insertable length, no base measurement, no hardness rating, and no manual.

This review is about the black variant with EAN 8713221835666, which is the only EAN available for the model. All seven Swedish stores in the price table list the same number for the same article, and none of them sells it in any other color. In Sweden, it costs between 349 and 599 SEK, and five out of seven stores had it in stock at the price check.

What is an anal cone, and how is it different from a buttplug?

A typical anal plug has a clear waist: it’s widest a little way up, then tapers off to a narrow neck part just above the base. That’s the shape that makes the plug stay in place by itself — the sphincter grabs the neck and keeps the plug in position without you having to hold it.

A cone works in the opposite way. It has no waist at all, but instead grows monotonically from top to bottom. Practically speaking, that means two things. First, it never “locks” itself at a certain depth—how far in it goes is determined only by how far you insert it, and it slides back out as soon as you let go. Second, it is a progressive tool rather than a product with a single size: each centimeter you insert corresponds to a slightly larger circumference, and you decide for yourself where you stop.

Based on the manufacturer’s stated size profile, this model grows from a top that is narrow enough to be inserted without any preparation, to Ø 5.5 centimeters partway up and finally Ø 9 centimeters where the cone meets the base. The rings along the shaft are not just decoration: they provide a step for each stage, and it is that step that makes it possible to feel how far in you have come without looking.

17, 26, or 33 cm — which Extreme cone is which?

Hidden Desire sells three cones in the same family, and they get mixed up regularly in Swedish stores because the pictures look almost identical. The difference shows only in the measurements.

• Extreme Buttplug Cone Head Large 17 cm — item 16865-BLACK, EAN 8713221835567. Total length 17 cm, Ø 4 cm and Ø 6.5 cm. List price 26.99 euro. A short, wide cone rather than a long one.
• Extreme Anal Cone XL 26 cm — item 16874-BLACK, EAN 8713221835659. Total length 26 cm, Ø 5.5 cm and Ø 8 cm. List price 35.99 euro.
• Extreme Anal Cone XXL 33 cm — the model this text is about. Item 16875-BLACK, EAN 8713221835666. Total length 33 cm, Ø 5.5 cm and Ø 9 cm. List price 56.99 euro.

The interesting detail lies in the intermediate size. The 26-centimeter model and the 33-centimeter model have the same Ø 5.5 centimeters on the narrower part. So the difference between them is not that the larger one is thicker everywhere, but that it is seven centimeters longer and the cone continues to grow by one more centimeter, from 8 to 9 centimeters, before it reaches the base. Someone who already owns the 26-centimeter model and is considering upgrading is, in practice, paying for the last seven centimeters and the last centimeter in circumference—not for a different product.

Measurements: 33 centimeters and a diameter that ends at 9 centimeters

The way the measurements are presented is the only area where the manufacturer is genuinely clear, and it is thanks to a measurement layout in the product gallery rather than a spec table. The image shows the total length 33 cm with a dimension line along the entire product, Ø 5.5 cm with an arrow pointing to the narrower part a bit above the middle, and Ø 9 cm toward the widest spot on the cone, right above the flared suction cup base.

All Swedish stores present the three numbers, and they do so consistently. Blush Me states 33.00 cm, minimum diameter 5.50 cm, and maximum diameter 9.00 cm. Vuxen states total length 33 cm, maximum diameter 9 cm, and minimum diameter 5.5 cm. Vuxenkul states length 33 cm and diameter 5.5 cm and 9 cm. Lekosmek and Taboo describe the same thing in continuous text as a conical shape from 5.5 to 9 centimeters. It is unusual: in this product category, it is more common for seven stores to give five different measurements for the same EAN.

What a 9-centimeter diameter actually means

Diameter figures in this category are easy to misread, because one centimeter in diameter is much more than one centimeter in circumference. Recalculate instead. Ø 5.5 centimeters corresponds to a circumference of about 17.3 centimeters. Ø 9 centimeters corresponds to a circumference of about 28.3 centimeters. So the difference between the product’s midsection and its widest point is eleven centimeters in circumference—more than a one-third increase.

What can be established is that the upper section falls within a range that an experienced user recognizes from larger plugs, while the lower section lies far outside that range. That the product is 33 centimeters long does not mean that 33 centimeters are intended to be used. The cone is built like a scale, and the last centimeters at the bottom are the outer edge of the scale, not its normal position.

The manufacturer does not publish an insertable length, and no store states one either. It’s a real gap in exactly this type of product, because the total length includes both the suction cup and the bottom part of the cone, which in practice is never inserted. So if you want to compare with a product that shows insertable length—for example, Master Series states that it has 10.25 inches insertable of 11.25 inches total on its Giant Ribbed Anal Cone—then you can’t do it directly here.

The weight that the manufacturer does not publish

Weight matters for a massive product of this size, both for how it feels when it’s sitting on a surface and for whether the suction cup can hold it. Still, the following applies: Hidden Desire publishes no weight for Extreme XXL Anal Cone. The field exists in the manufacturer’s own product data but is set to zero, which means it has never been filled in.

The retailer Taboo states 950 grams. It is the only weight information available in any of the seven stores, and it should be read as a store-specific detail and nothing else. That the number is still reasonable can be checked against a product in the same format with a published weight: XR Brands states 2.1 lb, i.e. about 0.95 kg, in the product data for its Giant Ribbed Anal Cone, which is just under five centimeters shorter and one millimeter narrower at its widest point. So two independent sources point to the same order of magnitude. But that doesn’t make it a manufacturer specification, and if you need the exact weight—for example to judge whether the suction cup holds on a vertical tile wall—you can’t get it.

Material: PVC, not silicone

The material is the single most important line in the specification of a product that is intended to be used on mucous membranes, and here the manufacturer’s statement is short but unambiguous: the product is made of smooth PVC. The same information is repeated in all the stores that list the material—Vuxen writes "pvc", Vuxenkul writes "PVC", Lekosmek and Taboo write "body-safe PVC", and Blush Me writes "Phthalate-free PVC".

PVC vs. silicone — the difference that determines hygiene

PVC and silicone are not interchangeable materials, and the difference isn’t about feel but about what happens to the surface over time. Silicone is non-porous: there are no microscopic voids where residues can be left behind, which is exactly why a silicone product can be cleaned properly and even boiled. Softened PVC is not non-porous in the same way, and it also contains plasticizers that, over time, migrate out of the material. That’s why an old PVC product can feel sticky on the surface—it’s the plasticizer that leaves the plastic.

The consequence for you as a buyer is concrete. A PVC product should be regarded as a consumable with a limited service life rather than something you own for ten years; it shouldn’t be shared between people without a condom, and it doesn’t tolerate boiling or a dishwasher. It should be cleaned with lukewarm water and mild, unperfumed soap or a cleaning agent intended for intimate products, and it should be stored dry and by itself—PVC products can react chemically with other soft plastics that are kept tightly next to each other.

The counterargument is just as factual: PVC is the reason this product costs 349 SEK and not 1,800. A solid silicone product that is 33 centimeters long with a Ø of 9 centimeters would weigh more, cost significantly more, and be in a completely different price range. In practice, the choice isn’t between this cone made of PVC and the same cone made of silicone, but between this cone and no cone at all in that price range.

Phthalates, plasticizers, and what the law actually requires

Phthalates are plasticizers used to make rigid PVC flexible. The Swedish Chemicals Agency describes them as substances that can affect the endocrine system and make reproduction more difficult, and several of them are restricted or banned within the EU in a large number of product categories. Here, however, there is one crucial legal detail that is rarely stated in store texts: there is no specific chemical legislation for the product category sex toys. The Swedish Chemicals Agency states this explicitly—the same rules apply as for goods in general, and the phthalate limits that apply to toys for children that can go in the mouth therefore do not automatically apply to an anal product.

The authority has also checked what it means in practice. In the 2016 supervisory project, 16 companies and 44 sex toys were inspected, mainly products in the lower price segment made of soft PVC plastic. The result was better than the rumor: just one of the 44 contained a prohibited substance above the limit value, a dildo in soft PVC with short-chain chlorinated paraffins. Three products contained the phthalate DEHP at levels above 0.1 weight percent, and all three were products intended for use on the outside of the body—two in faux leather and one in bondage tape. In four products, the phthalate DINP was found.

The conclusion to draw from that is balanced. Soft PVC in this product category is not automatically a chemical problem, but it is the material group where the supervision actually finds what it finds, and it is also the material group where the manufacturer's own declaration therefore weighs the most. And that is exactly where this product falls short.

"Phthalate-free PVC" — a store claim, not a manufacturer claim

Blush Me states the material as "phthalate-free PVC" in its feature table. Lekosmek and Taboo state "body-safe PVC." That sounds reassuring, but it’s important to know where the information comes from: Hidden Desire does not state anywhere that the material is phthalate-free. The manufacturer’s own text only says "smooth PVC", and there is neither a material declaration, a test certificate, nor an EU declaration of conformity to refer to on the manufacturer’s website.

That makes store formulations second-hand information without a traceable basis. They don’t have to be wrong—the competitor Master Series explicitly states phthalate-free PVC for its corresponding cone, so the material exists in a phthalate-free form—but the difference between "a store writes it" and "the manufacturer guarantees it" is the whole point of reading a specification. If you want a documented material commitment, you should choose a product where the manufacturer itself spells it out.

There is a practical solution for anyone who wants to use the product anyway: a condom over the product eliminates direct contact between the mucous membrane and plastic, makes cleaning easier, and costs a few kronor per use. For a massive product of this size, it’s a reasonable way to address a material claim that isn’t fully substantiated.

Use: wide base, suction cup, and fully manual operation

There are no buttons, no settings, and nothing to charge. Vuxenkul lists the control option as “Manual / Hand-controlled,” which is a correct, albeit wordy, description of a product without electronics. It also means there is no battery capacity, no operating time, no charging time, and no sound level to report—those lines in our spectabell are blank for the simple reason that they do not exist.

How good is the suction cup—and what can it hold?

The manufacturer mentions a wide base but doesn’t use the word suction cup. The stores do: SexleksakerOutlet lists “Equipped with suction cup” among the product’s features, and Vuxen states the base type as “Suction cup” in its quick facts. The manufacturer’s own product images also show a clearly flared, plate-shaped base that is a suction cup and nothing else.

What the suction cup can handle, however, is not published by anyone. Neither the manufacturer nor any of the seven stores states the suction cup’s diameter, its load capacity, or which surfaces it is intended for. What can be established generally is that a suction cup requires a smooth, tight, and clean surface—tile, glass, lacquered sheet metal, a bathtub—and that it does not stick to plastered walls, wood, or porous material. What can also be established is that a product that, according to one store, weighs 950 grams loads the suction cup significantly harder in an upright position than when lying on the floor, and that lying or sitting use on a flat, horizontal surface is therefore the situation where the base has the greatest margin.

The base: the most important safety measure on an anal product

The flared base is not an accessory; it is the product’s only safety latch. An anal product with an insufficiently wide base can be pulled inward by the bowel’s own movement, and it’s the only complication in this product category that regularly leads to emergency care. The manufacturer writes themselves that the product has “a wide base for safety and comfort,” which is the right priority—but they do not state the base’s diameter in millimeters, and it therefore can’t be compared numerically with another product.

However, with this particular model there is one argument that makes the question less pointed than usual: the cone’s widest point is Ø 9 centimeters. A cone that grows all the way down to a diameter of nine centimeters practically can’t disappear inward, because what would need to pass the sphincter is a full nine centimeters wide. The risk with a cone instead lies at the opposite end of the scale: that you insert more than your body is prepared for, since the shape provides no natural stopping point.

Which lubricant works with PVC?

This is one of the few points where PVC has a real advantage over silicone. Silicone-based lubricant may not be used on silicone products, because it breaks down the surface and makes it porous. PVC is not silicone, and Taboo states that the product works with both water-based and silicone-based lubricants. This is a store claim — the manufacturer writes nothing at all about lubricants — but it matches the material’s properties and how this product category is normally used.

Practically, this means you can choose a lubricant based on how you plan to use it rather than on the material. Water-based lubricant is the easiest to wash off and the gentlest on everything else in this context, but it dries out and needs to be topped up. Silicone-based lubricant keeps significantly longer without needing refills, which is relevant for an anal product of this size where a session is rarely short-lived, but it’s harder to wash off and should not be used in the same session with silicone toys. Oil-based products such as coconut oil should be avoided completely — they break down latex condoms and leave a film that’s difficult to remove.

A piece of advice that applies regardless of the choice: anal tissue produces no lubricant of its own. The amount should be generously provided from the start and topped up along the way, and it matters even more the coarser the product is. A thin layer isn’t enough on a surface that grows with every centimeter.

Cleaning, storage, and lifespan

Hidden Desire does not publish any care instructions for this product. It’s not a guess: the manufacturer’s page for user manuals lists manuals for vibrating anal toys, masturbators, cock cages, sex swings, sex machines, and dolls — but no manual at all for the Extreme series’ non-electrical anal products. What follows is therefore general advice for soft PVC, not the manufacturer’s instructions.

How do you clean a PVC product?

Rinse the product in lukewarm water directly after use and use fragrance-free soap or a cleanser intended for intimate products. Be thorough in the recessed areas of the rings and at the seam between the cone and the suction cup base — that’s where residue collects on a product with this profile. Pat it dry with a clean towel and let it air-dry completely before putting the product away.

What should not be done is just as important. No boiling, no dishwasher, and no bleach-based cleaning — soft PVC can’t handle that. Avoid alcohol-based cleaning sprays that aren’t meant for intimate products. Store the product dry and preferably in its own bag, since soft plastics can react with each other during long-lasting contact. If the surface starts to feel sticky or changes smell, the product is worn out and should be replaced, not saved.

The IPX5 claim that doesn’t belong here

One of the stores lists a technical specification that deserves a comment. Taboo lists "Water-resistant IPx5: Yes" in its specification table for this product. It’s an incorrect application of a standard.

IP codes come from IEC 60529 and describe how well an enclosure protects electrical equipment against intrusion of objects and water. IPX5 means that an enclosure can handle water jets from all directions. This product has no enclosure, no electronics, and nothing inside that could be damaged by water — it’s a solid piece of plastic. Stating IPXX5 on it is about the same as assigning an enclosure rating to a bar of soap. The information isn’t dangerous, but it’s meaningless, and it comes from the store, not the manufacturer. Hidden Desire doesn’t publish an IP rating for the product, and it doesn’t need to. The product fully tolerates water because it’s solid, not because of a classification.

Safety: what isn’t stated in the product sheet

With a product in this format, the lack of documentation becomes a problem in itself. There’s no package insert, no warning text, and no size guide from the manufacturer, while the product is marketed as something that pushes boundaries. The following, then, is general facts, not the manufacturer’s instructions.

Progression: why 33 centimeters isn’t a goal

Anal tissue is stretched, but it does so slowly and doesn’t return immediately. The working principle is always the same: start well below your limit, increase in small steps over multiple occasions rather than within a single session, and stop at pain instead of working through it. Pain isn’t a sign that you’re close to the goal — it’s your body’s signal of tissue damage, and a fissure heals over weeks, not hours.

The shape of a cone makes it a good tool for precisely that kind of progression, because you can stop anywhere on the scale and come back to the same point next time. But the shape also makes it a product that lacks a stop. There’s no position where it "stops on its own" until you’re down at Ø 9 centimeters, and it isn’t a measurement that should be seen as a guideline.

A couple of concrete things that apply regardless of the product: never numbing gel or cream, for exactly the same reasons as above — the pain signal is the only protection. Never alcohol or drugs that delay the pain response. And seek medical care without waiting if there is persistent bleeding, severe pain afterward, or if anything can’t be gotten out.

What the manufacturer doesn’t write — and why that counts

Let’s be precise about what’s missing, because that’s the most important part of the specification for this particular product. Hidden Desire does not publish:

• The product’s weight — the field exists in the manufacturer’s product data but is blank.
• Insertable length — only the total length of 33 cm is given.
• Base diameter — only that the base is “wide.”
• The suction cup’s diameter, load capacity, or intended surfaces.
• The material’s hardness, for example as a Shore value.
• Any phthalate or material declaration beyond the word PVC.
• Care and cleaning instructions, or any manual at all.
• Package contents, dimensions, or whether the product is delivered sealed.
• Any product warranty or warranty period.

It’s an unusually long list, and it’s a judgment in itself. None of the points makes the product worse as an object — it’s exactly as long and as wide regardless of what’s in a datasheet. But each point is a question you can’t get answers to before purchase, and for a product that’s meant to be used internally, that’s a price that should be factored into the 349 kronor.

Extreme XXL Anal Cone compared with the alternatives

Three comparisons are relevant: against the smaller cone in the same series, against the same kind of product from another brand, and against the shorter, wider cone. All the dimensions below come from the respective manufacturers’ own product pages and dimension diagrams, and all Swedish prices come from the retailers’ product feeds on July 29, 2026.

Against Extreme Anal Cone XL 26 cm — seven centimeters and one centimeter

The sister model has article number 16874-BLACK and EAN 8713221835659. The dimension diagram gives a total length of 26 cm, Ø 5.5 cm, and Ø 8 cm, and the manufacturer’s list price is 35.99 euros versus 56.99 euros for the 33-centimeter model. In Swedish stores, it has been seen for 322 SEK.

So the difference is exactly two things: seven centimeters in length and one centimeter in maximum diameter. The material is the same, the shape is the same, the suction cup base is the same, and the narrower section is identical — both indicate Ø 5.5 cm. One centimeter in diameter sounds a bit, but it corresponds to a little over three centimeters in circumference at the widest point, and it’s a noticeable difference in just that end of the scale.

The recommendation that follows from the measurements is straightforward: if you’re buying your first cone in this series, there’s no reason to start with the 33-centimeter model. The 26-centimeter version gives you the full range you realistically will use at the beginning, at a lower price. The larger model is an upgrade for the person who has already reached the end of the smaller scale.

Versus Master Series Giant Ribbed Anal Cone — the one that provides more

XR Brands Master Series Giant Ribbed Anal Cone, item AF608 with EAN 848518029560, is the same kind of product from another angle: a fluted cone in PVC with gradually increasing diameter. The manufacturer states a total length of 11.25 inches (28.6 cm), of which 10.25 inches (26.0 cm) is insertable, a diameter that grows from 1.25 to 3.5 inches (3.2 to 8.9 cm), ftalate-free PVC, and a weight of 2.1 lb (0.95 kg) in the product data.

Purely dimension-wise, the two products are close to each other at the thick end — 8.9 versus 9.0 centimeters is practically the same measurement — while the Hidden Desire cone is 4.4 centimeters longer overall and starts thinner at the top according to the images. The difference lies somewhere else: Master Series publishes insertable length, starting diameter, weight, and an explicit phthalate declaration. Hidden Desire publishes none of those four.

It’s the only comparison in this text where the difference is not about the product, but about the documentation, and that’s exactly why it’s worth doing. Two cones that are almost identical in measurements can differ a lot in how much you know before you pay. The Master Series product, on the other hand, isn’t sold by any of the seven Swedish stores in the price table, which in practice means import, longer delivery time, and a different price picture.

Versus Extreme Buttplug Cone Head Large 17 cm — short and wide instead

The third comparison is in the same series, but it’s a different shape. Extreme Buttplug Cone Head Large, item 16865-BLACK with EAN 8713221835567, measures according to the measurement diagram 17 cm total with Ø 4 cm and Ø 6.5 cm, and the list price is 26.99 euros.

The shape differs in a way that matters: it has a clearly defined neck above the base, so it’s a real plug profile, while the 33-centimeter model is an unbroken cone all the way through. That makes the Cone Head a product that can stay in place without being held, and the 33-centimeter model one that should be held or braced against a surface. If you want something to wear for a while, it’s the short model that’s the right design. If you want a size scale to work your way up on, it’s the long one.

Price range: 349 to 599 SEK at seven stores

Seven Swedish stores sell the item with EAN 8713221835666. The cheapest are Blush Me and SexleksakerOutlet at 349 SEK each, and the most expensive are Vuxenkul, Lekosmek, and Taboo at 599 SEK. That’s 250 SEK, or a 72 percent difference, for the exact same item number, the same color, and the same packaging.

The price spread has a clear structure in this case. Both Blush Me and SexleksakerOutlet list 595 SEK as the regular price and 349 SEK as the campaign price, which means that 599 SEK at the three most expensive stores is at the same level as the regular price at the cheapest stores. So it’s not three stores charging an overprice—there are two that have a sale. The price at the lower end should therefore be seen as a campaign price that may disappear, not as a market price.

The inventory situation is good compared with what’s typical in this category. Five of seven stores had the product in stock during the price check: Blush Me and SexleksakerOutlet at 349 SEK, Vuxen at 595 SEK, and Lekosmek and Taboo at 599 SEK. Sexonic at 510 SEK and Vuxenkul at 599 SEK were shown as sold out in the feeds. The difference between the cheapest available and the next cheapest available is therefore zero kronor—the two cheapest stores have the same price and both have the item in stock.

Still, always check the final price at checkout. Blush Me and SexleksakerOutlet list 29 SEK for shipping in their product feeds, while Vuxenkul lists zero. For a purchase in this price range, shipping costs can therefore shift the ranking between two stores that are close to each other, and several stores offer free shipping only once an order threshold that’s higher than the product’s price is reached.

Who is Extreme XXL Anal Cone for—and who isn’t it for?

It’s for you if you already have experience with large anal toys and want a scale to work your way up on rather than a product with a single fixed size. It’s for you if you want maximum size per krona—33 centimeters and Ø 9 centimeters for 349 SEK have no equivalent in silicone. It’s for you if you want to be able to use either water-based or silicone-based lube, and for you who want a product that can stand on a flat surface for hands-free use.

It’s not for you if you’re new to anal toys. The shape has no stop, the smallest stated diameter is Ø 5.5 centimeters a bit up on the shaft, and the short model in the same series is a significantly more sensible starting point. It’s not for you if you want silicone with the hygiene and lifespan that comes with it, and it’s not for you if you require a documented material declaration before buying—it isn’t available from the manufacturer. It’s also not for you if you want to compare insertable length, weight, or base dimensions with other products, because none of those are published.

One last thing belongs in the decision. This product is big in a way you notice in everyday life—not just in bed: 33 centimeters is too long for most drawers, it should be stored on its own in its own bag, and it’s difficult to store discreetly. It’s not an argument against the product, but it’s a practical consideration that rarely comes up and is worth thinking through before the package arrives.

Warranty, complaints, and right of withdrawal

Hidden Desire does not provide any product warranty and does not state any warranty period for the Extreme series. The manufacturer’s purchase terms include rules about payment, delivery, and reporting visible defects — which must be reported within 48 hours after delivery — but no voluntary manufacturer warranty at all. A search on the manufacturer’s site for warranty terms yields zero results.

But the stores can add their own commitments, and one of them does: Lekosmek states a two-year product warranty on what they sell. It is the store’s own commitment to you as a customer, not the manufacturer’s, and it therefore only applies if you buy there.

What, however, always applies are your statutory rights, and they are stronger than what most people think. Under the Swedish Consumer Sales Act (konsumentköplagen), you have a three-year right to complain about defects in the goods, regardless of what the manufacturer promises or does not promise. In distance purchases, you also have a right of withdrawal for fourteen days under the Act on Distance Contracts and Contracts Outside Business Premises.

Pay attention to the hygiene exception, which is particularly relevant here. In practice, the right of withdrawal is limited for hygiene items that have been removed from a sealed package, and the manufacturer states in its terms that products with a broken hygienic seal cannot be returned. The right to complain about defects in the goods, on the other hand, always applies, and it covers a product that cracks, becomes sticky prematurely, or otherwise does not maintain the quality you are entitled to expect. If you have questions about what applies in your case, the Swedish Consumer Agency (Konsumentverket) guides you via Hallå konsument.