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Toy Joy Get Real Dual Density Dong 23 cm: review

Toy Joy Get Real Dual Density Dong 23 cm reviewed against the manufacturer’s own dimensional drawing, user manual, and price data from six Swedish stores. Total length 23.5 cm, insertable length 20.75 cm, diameter 4 cm, and a suction cup base—but the material is listed only as TPE, with no phthalate declaration, no hardness value, and no manufacturer warranty. Here it’s stated who says what, and where the stores have added details that the manufacturer never provided.

6.8Fair
Place 8 of 19in realistic dildo best

Elin Sandberg · Updated 13 September 2026 · 14 min read

My rating

An unusual format for a low price: 20.75 centimeters insertable in a shaft that’s only 4 centimeters, with the dual density build that otherwise belongs in silicone models that cost twice as much. The trade-off is the material documentation—the word TPE without any phthalate information, without a hardness value, and without a manufacturer warranty—plus a price list where two of six store listings point to the neighboring 20.5-centimeter model.

  • Total length 23.5 cm, insertable length 20.75 cm, diameter Ø 4 cm
  • Dual density: soft TPE surface over a firmer core with flexible Flexi Shaft
  • Suction cup base for hands-free use, compatible with seat belts according to two shops
  • Weight 358 g according to Lekosmek and Taboo — the manufacturer does not publish any
  • No manufacturer warranty beyond the statutory one
  • 216–329 SEK at six shops, four in stock at the price check

Toy Joy Get Real Dual Density Dong 23 cm in brief

Get Real is Toy Joy's line of realistic dildos, and Dual Density Dong is the model in the line where the manufacturer builds the shaft in two layers: a soft outer layer and a firmer core. This article is the longest in the regular dual density line and is sold in Sweden under five different product names — including "23 cm", "9 inch" and "23,5 cm". It is the same article every time, and it is the barcode that settles the matter.

The specification looks like this according to the manufacturer: total length 23.5 centimeters, insertable length 20.75 centimeters, diameter 4 centimeters, the material TPE and a suction cup base. No motor, no battery, no settings. In Sweden, the item is sold by six stores at prices ranging from 216 to 329 SEK, and four of them had it in stock at the price check on September 12, 2026.

This review is exclusively about the variant in light skin tone with EAN 8713221821614, the manufacturer's item number 10183, and the light-skin-tone variant (SKU 10183-SKIN). The number can be checked in the manufacturer's own product data at toyjoy.eu, and it is confirmed independently by four of the six Swedish stores: Vuxenkul states it in the EAN field, Sexonic as gtin13, and both Lekosmek and Taboo have the same barcode in their product data along with the manufacturer's item number 10183. This is unusually good traceability in this category, and it is worth noting because the rest of the documentation is significantly thinner.

Dimensions: 23.5 cm overall, 20.75 cm insertable and Ø 4 cm

Toy Joy does not publish the dimensions in running text on the product page. Instead, they are in a dimension drawing among the product images, and that drawing is the only complete dimension information that comes directly from the manufacturer. It provides three figures: total length 23.5 centimeters, insertable length 20.75 centimeters and a diameter of 4 centimeters.

Overall length is the least useful of the three. It includes the suction cup base, and by definition the base is the part that is never inserted. The difference between the two length measurements is 2.75 centimeters, so that is exactly how much of the product consists of the base and the neck above it. Someone comparing two dildos by overall length is, in practice, comparing how big their feet are.

The diameter of 4 centimeters is the figure that matters most in practice. Calculated for a circle, that corresponds to a circumference of just under 12.6 centimeters, which makes this model narrow for its length. The comparison becomes clear versus Pipedreams King Cock 9 tum, which is about the same length but has an insertable diameter of 5.5 centimeters — 1.5 centimeters more in diameter corresponds to almost 4.7 centimeters more in circumference. It’s the difference between a long and narrow shape and a long and thick shape, and it’s the single most important question to ask yourself before looking at anything else.

Here there is also the only real contradiction in the documentation. The retailer Joyland states the length as 23 centimeters, the penetrating length as 21 centimeters, and the diameter as 4.5 centimeters, and it also writes in the product text that the diameter varies between 3.5 and 4.5 centimeters. Vuxenkul, on the other hand, reproduces the manufacturer’s numbers exactly: 23.5 centimeters overall, 20.75 centimeters inside, and 4 centimeters in diameter. Lekosmek and Taboo round to 23 centimeters and 4 centimeters. The manufacturer’s drawing determines the question — but Joyland’s note that the diameter varies is reasonable for a realistic shape, because something like that is never a uniformly-thick cylinder. Consider 4 centimeters as the measurement the manufacturer stands for, and 4.5 centimeters as the store’s estimate of the thickest part of the shaft.

What dual density means — and what Flexi Shaft is

Dual density means the product is molded in two materials with different hardness: a soft outer layer that mimics skin, and a firmer core inside that gives the shaft stability. The manufacturer describes the combination as a soft surface and a firm core, and that’s the whole point of the construction — a dildo molded in a single soft material becomes too loose to control, and one molded in a single hard material becomes uncomfortable against the body.

Toy Joy also publishes a construction graphic for what they call Dual Density Flexi Shaft. It shows three layers in cross-section: the lighter soft outer skin layer, the darker firmer core, and a light channel that runs through the core along the entire shaft. That channel is the explanation for the name — it allows the stiff core to bend rather than just being stiff. The packaging uses the same labeling and adds the phrase Soft Touch Technology for the outer layer, with a small sample window labeled "Try me" so that you can feel the material in the store.

What can be established is that the construction is the same as that used by the more expensive competitors, but using a cheaper material. The manufacturer publishes no shore value and no hardness figures for either the outer layer or the core, either on the product page, in the product data, or in the user manual. The closest one gets is a Joyland shop claim, which states the hardness as “soft, medium”—a store categorization, not a measured value.

Get Real series: 19, 21, and 23.5 centimeters

Toy Joy sells several models under Get Real, all of which are named something with “dual density,” and they’re regularly mixed up in the shop texts. Three of them are relevant to keep separate.

  • Dual Density Dong TPE 19 cm — article 10174, EAN 8713221819451. The manufacturer calls it Dual Density Cock 7.5 Inch. Same construction and same material, shorter shape.
  • Dual Density Dong TPE 23.5 cm — article 10183, EAN 8713221821614. This text is about that one.
  • Deluxe Dual Density Dong TPE 21 cm — article 10118, EAN 8713221832467. The Deluxe line is its own product family, not a larger variant of the standard one. The manufacturer states that Deluxe uses something they call Supreme Vital Skin, i.e., a different outer material, and it also has a suction-cup base.

There is also a model in 20.5 centimeters that’s sold in Sweden under almost the same name, and it’s directly the cause of two incorrect shop links in the price list further down. This matter is addressed separately under the heading about the shop name.

Material: TPE, and everything the manufacturer doesn’t state

The material issue is the only characteristic of an intimate product that neither experience nor care can make up for, and it determines whether the product can still be used a few years from now. Toy Joy lists a single material for this item: TPE. It’s stated in the product name, in the product data, and in the product text, and all six Swedish shops reproduce it. That’s where everyone agrees so far.

What TPE is, and why the word isn’t enough

TPE stands for thermoplastic elastomer and is a collective term, not a recipe. It describes a group of soft plastics that behave like rubber but can be melted again and molded and cast like plastic, and the group includes very different blends. So the fact that a product is made of TPE says less than that a product is made of silicone, because silicone describes a significantly narrower family of materials.

The manufacturer’s own user manual provides two instructions that are directly connected to this. The first is that products should be stored separately to avoid possible reactions between different materials. The second is that intimate products should not be shared without suitable hygiene protection. Both are general advice for Toy Joy’s entire range, but they’re relevant here precisely because the material is soft plastic and not silicone.

So the following is what can be established: the manufacturer names the material group but nothing more. No material supplier, no blend, no certificate, no reference to a test report. The packaging carries the term "Body-safe" with a small heart icon, and that’s the entire materials commitment.

Phthalates: no declaration from the manufacturer

Phthalates are a group of plasticizers used to make plastic—especially soft PVC—flexible. The Swedish Chemicals Agency (Kemikalieinspektionen) describes them as substances that can affect the hormone system and reproduction, and several of them are restricted or prohibited within the EU in a large number of products. The question is especially relevant in this category, because the products consist of soft plastic that lies against the mucous membrane.

Toy Joy publishes no phthalate declaration for this item, either on the product page, in the product data, on the packaging, or in the instructions for use. It’s a difference compared with several competitors that print "phthalate-free" on the carton. None of the six Swedish stores fills the gap either—none of them claims that the product is phthalate-free, which in this context is more honest than guessing.

The absence of a declaration is not a message that the product contains phthalates. It’s a message that the question hasn’t been answered. By way of comparison, it can be mentioned that the Swedish Chemicals Agency (Kemikalieinspektionen) in 2016 drove a supervision project in which 16 companies were inspected and 44 sex toys were checked with regard to chemical content and labeling—that is, that the category is subject to official regulatory oversight, but that supervision never replaces a declaration on the specific item.

Another measure of how young the documentation culture is in this industry: the first international standard for sex toys, ISO 3533, was published as recently as September 29, 2021. It sets requirements for design, materials, and consumer information, but it is voluntary to follow, and Toy Joy does not refer to it anywhere in the materials for this article.

Surface and hardness — store details only

The manufacturer describes the surface as soft to the touch and the shape as natural, with carefully designed details. It’s marketing language and not a specification. The only specifics come from a store: Joyland states that the surface is silky, smooth, and veined, and that the hardness is soft to medium. Taboo describes the material as soft and body-safe TPE and highlights that the shaft is flexible and compliant.

One thing that two shops write and that can be checked against the manufacturer’s own images: Lekosmek states that the product is designed with balls. That does not match the manufacturer’s product images, where the shaft transitions directly into a round suction cup base without balls. Toy Joy has its own model with balls in the same series, and that is likely the explanation for the mix-up. Lekosmek also states that the product is CE-marked — a claim that neither the manufacturer nor any other shop repeats, and that is missing from both the product page and the packaging the manufacturer shows in its own gallery.

Weight: 358 grams according to two stores

The manufacturer does not publish a weight for this item. That is a striking gap, because the weight has a direct practical impact on a product that is supposed to hang in a suction cup on a vertical surface.

Two shops fill the gap with the same number. Both Lekosmek and Taboo list 358 grams in their product data, and both list the item under the manufacturer’s item number 10183 and the correct barcode, which makes the information more credible than a single shop’s figure. Joyme lists 360 grams, but that number applies to the neighboring model at 20.5 centimeters and should not be transferred here.

Put the number into context. Pipedream, which publishes weight for the entire King Cock range, lists 577 grams for its 9-inch model in PVC and 498 grams for the Elite version in silicone. So this model weighs, according to the shop information, about 60 percent of what the nearest PVC competitor does, with nearly identical length. This is a result of the narrower shape and means the suction cup has less for it to hold up — which in practice is an advantage for handsfree use on a vertical surface.

Suction cup, strap, and hands-free

The product has no buttons, no motor, and no settings. Everything that can be said about use therefore comes down to shape, base, and material, and that is also where the shops put their focus.

The manufacturer states a suction cup base and describes it as strong, and the marking "Suction base" is printed on the packaging. No diameter for the suction cup is published — which is worth noting, because the suction cup’s size is what determines how much weight it can manage to hold. For comparison, Pipedream lists 9.2 centimeters in diameter and 2.5 centimeters in height for its corresponding model.

How well does the suction cup stay in place?

Three factors determine how a suction cup behaves: the base’s diameter, the product’s weight, and the surface’s smoothness. The manufacturer publishes nothing of the first two, but the shop information about 358 grams still says something useful. A lighter product puts less load on the vacuum, and this model is significantly lighter than the heavier competitors in the same length category.

Taboo describes the suction cup as strong and states that it can be attached to smooth surfaces for hands-free use. Vuxenkul formulates the same thing and adds that it works on any flat surface. What applies generally is that a suction cup needs a completely smooth, pore-free and dry surface: tile, glass, a lacquered panel, or the inside wall of a bathtub. Texture in the lacquer, grout, or a damp surface will cause it to release. The practical method is to press the air out from the center of the cup, not just to press it firmly flat.

Does it work with a strap-on harness?

Yes, according to two of the stores. Taboo expressly states that the dildo fits most strap-on harnesses with a ring size that corresponds to a diameter of 4 centimeters, and that a flexible ring can handle smaller deviations. Vuxenkul writes that it can be attached to a universal harness. The manufacturer itself does not mention harness compatibility for this item—it does so for its silicone model in the same series, which is marketed as harness-compatible.

What can be confirmed purely in terms of construction is that a round, flat suction-cup base is the base shape that works in the most harnesses, because it provides a ring you can tighten. The ring should rest against the neck above the base, and there the shaft—according to the manufacturer’s drawing—is 4 centimeters in diameter. It’s a common ring size, but check your own harness—harness rings are typically sold in three or four sizes.

Which lubricant works with TPE?

Toy Joy’s user manual is clear: use a water-based lubricant, since oil-based and silicone-based lubricants can damage certain product materials. Joyland and Taboo repeat the recommendation about water-based lubricant in their product texts.

The reason is worth understanding and not just following. Silicone-based lubricants attack soft elastomer surfaces over time and make them sticky or dull, and a surface that has started to break down can’t be restored—only replaced. Oil-based products like coconut oil leave a film that’s difficult to remove completely and that binds dirt. Water-based lubricant doesn’t affect the material, and it’s also the only one that works together with a latex condom, which is relevant if the product is to be used by more than one person.

Cleaning, temperature, and storage

The user manual states that the product should be cleaned both before and after each use, with lukewarm water and mild soap or a cleaning product intended for intimate products. After that, it should be dried completely before being put away.

Two instructions from the manufacturer are more important than they sound. The product must not be heated, frozen, or exposed to temperatures above 45 degrees. That rules out boiling, a dishwasher, and hot cars, and it’s the only numerical care limit the manufacturer publishes. The second is that products should be stored separately to avoid possible reactions between different materials—so not in the same drawer as another soft-plastic product, where they can get stuck in each other or discolor each other. The manufacturer recommends a storage bag or its own storage container, but none of that is included in the delivery.

The user manual also adds that the product should be inspected before each use and not be used if it is damaged, cracked, torn, or deformed, and that it should not be bent, twisted, or stretched with force. On a dual-density product, that’s a reasonable instruction: the soft surface and the solid core are two materials with different stretch, and that’s where—at the boundary between them—a crack would then arise.

Water resistance: one store says yes, the manufacturer says nothing.

Here the information diverges in a way that deserves to be stated plainly. Toy Joy publishes no enclosure rating class and no water-resistance claim for this item. The retailer Vuxenkul lists in its specification table "Water-resistant: Yes". None of the other five stores addresses the issue.

What an enclosure rating class is—and when one is missing

An IP rating class describes how well a housing protects electronics against solid material and water. Toy Joy’s own user manual uses the term and divides products into three cases: water-tight products may be submerged in water only once all charging ports, battery compartments, and protective covers are completely closed; splash-proof products may be cleaned with water but not submerged; and products without a water-resistance rating class should not be exposed to water at all. The manual also explicitly refers to the packaging for the information about which class an individual product has.

The packaging for this item states no class. At the same time, the same manual says that the product should be cleaned with lukewarm water and mild soap. The two instructions are hard to reconcile literally, and the explanation is probably that the rules in the manual are written for motor-driven products—the manual’s heading is "Motorised Intimate Products", and this item has neither a motor nor a battery nor any openings.

The conclusion you can actually draw: a massive molded body without electronics has nothing that can be damaged by water, and the manufacturer’s cleaning instructions assume water. But Vuxenkuls "Water-resistant: Yes" is a shop claim that is not covered by the manufacturer, and it shouldn’t be read as a promise that the product is approved for a bathtub. If you want a Get Real product with a classification on paper, it exists: Toy Joy’s own Harness Dong Vibrating Silicone 19.5 cm is stated as being IPX7-classified.

The documentation: what Toy Joy publishes and what is on the package

A review of this kind stands and falls with what the manufacturer actually publishes. Here is the full list for article 10183: product name, article number, variant color, barcode, the TPE material, a five-sentence product text, three product images, and a measurement drawing with three figures. That’s all.

What does Toy Joy’s user manual say?

Toy Joy does not publish a product-specific manual for this item. What exists is a general user manual in PDF that covers the entire range and is written in ten languages. It still contains more binding information than the product page, and that’s why it’s worth reading before buying.

It starts with a phrasing that, in practice, is the whole explanation for why the product page is so thin: product-specific information — material, battery type, charging method, water-resistance rating, and model number — is on the packaging, not on the web. For anyone shopping online, that means the information comes with the package, not before the purchase. The manual also states the age limit of 18 years, that the product is sold as a novelty item and is not intended for medical or therapeutic purposes, and that it should not be used by anyone who is allergic or sensitive to any of the materials listed on the packaging.

The manufacturer information in the manual is complete: Toy Joy, Bijsterhuizen 3151, 6604 LV Wijchen in the Netherlands. The manual also states that Toyjoy is a registered trademark and trading name belonging to Scala 2.0 B.V., which explains why one of the Swedish shops lists Scala as the supplier instead of Toy Joy.

Six shops, six different sets of numbers

Going through all the shops that sell an item regularly gives more information than the manufacturer’s own page, and this article is a clear example. Here’s how the information breaks down:

  • Vuxenkul reproduces the manufacturer’s three measurements exactly — 23.5 cm, 20.75 cm, and 4 cm — and it’s the only shop that provides its own article number, SC3576-1. The shop also states "Water-resistant: Yes" and that the product can be attached to a universal harness.
  • Joyland is the only one that publishes a complete specification table with surface and hardness, but it deviates in the measurements: 23 cm, 21 cm insertable, and 4.5 cm in diameter, with the addition that the diameter varies between 3.5 and 4.5 cm.
  • Lekosmek and Taboo both list the weight as 358 grams, the same barcode, and the manufacturer’s article number 10183. Lekosmek adds two claims that are not supported by the manufacturer: that the product is CE-marked and that it is designed with a scrotum.
  • Sexonic confirms the barcode but does not publish its own product text beyond the product name, and at the same time has placed the same barcode on another item.
  • Joyme has a detailed product text with weight and package dimensions, but it applies to the neighboring model at 20.5 centimeters.

The pattern is repeated in this category: the manufacturer publishes the smallest possible amount, the shops fill in with their own details of varying quality, and no one marks out what comes from where. The rule that applies here is that the manufacturer’s dimension drawing takes precedence over the shop text, and that a shop detail that no other shop repeats is to be treated as just that — a shop detail.

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Manufacturer’s dimension drawing for item 10183, checked on September 13, 2026

Pros

  • The manufacturer publishes both total length, insertion length, and diameter: 23.5 / 20.75 / Ø 4 cm
  • An unusual combination in the category—20.75 cm insertable in a shaft that’s only 4 cm in diameter
  • Dual density with a soft exterior and a firm core—the same principle as dual-density silicone models that cost twice as much
  • Solid molded design without a motor, battery, seams, or openings to clean around
  • Suction-cup base for hands-free use, and harness-compatible with the four-centimeter ring according to two stores
  • EAN 8713221821614 is confirmed independently of the manufacturer and by four out of six stores
  • Light for its size: 358 g according to two stores versus 577 g for King Cock 9 inches

Cons

  • The material is stated only as TPE—no phthalate declaration, no hardness value, and no material certificate
  • The manufacturer does not publish either weight, suction cup diameter, or the enclosure rating
  • No manufacturer warranty—only the statutory one, according to the manufacturer’s user manual
  • No product-specific manual is available; the manufacturer refers the specifications to the packaging
  • Joyland lists 23 / 21 / 4.5 cm, which differs from the manufacturer’s 23.5 / 20.75 / 4 cm
  • Lekosmek claims both CE marking and scrotum—neither of it is supported by the manufacturer
  • Sexonic has the same EAN for two different models, and Joymes’s link goes to the 20.5-centimeter model

Rating in detail: five criteria, the same for the entire category

6.8Fair
Materials and hygiene
3,6
The material is listed only as TPE — no phthalate declaration, no hardness value, no material certificate.
Shape and dimensions
8,5
20.75 cm insertable and Ø 4 cm out of 23.5 cm — long and narrow, from the manufacturer’s dimension drawing.
Attachment and method of use
7,0
Suction-cup base and compatible with sel according to the stores, but the diameter of the suction cup is not published.
Design and durability
6,2
Double density with a flexible shaft and a published cleaning limit of 45 °C.
Price-to-performance
8,6
229 SEK for 20.75 cm insertable — 11 SEK per centimeter, cheapest per centimeter in the entire range.

Compared with the alternatives

Four comparisons are relevant: against the smaller model in the same series, against the most-sold PVC competitor in the same length class, against the same competitor in silicone, and against Toy Joy’s own silicone product. All information below comes from the respective manufacturers’ own product pages.

Compared to Get Real Dual Density Dong 19 cm — same build, shorter form

The closest relative is article 10174 with EAN 8713221819451, which Toy Joy sells as Dual Density Dong TPE 19 cm and describes as Dual Density Cock 7.5 Inch. It’s the same series, the same construction with a soft outer layer and a firm core, the same material, and the same suction cup base.

The difference is 4.5 centimeters in total length. The manufacturer does not publish a separate dimension drawing for the 19-centimeter model, so the insertable length can’t be compared figure-for-figure — but since the base is the same, in practice the difference is the full 4.5 centimeters of insertable shaft. So if you’re unsure whether 20.75 centimeters is too much, there’s a cheaper and shorter alternative within the same series, with exactly the same material question marks.

Compared to King Cock 9 inches — 1.5 cm thicker and 219 grams heavier

Pipedreams King Cock 9" Cock, article 550421 with UPC 603912349979, is the best-selling realistic dildos in the same length class. It’s a good comparison object for two reasons: it’s close in size, and Pipedream publishes everything that Toy Joy leaves out.

The measurements are as follows. King Cock: total length 24.0 centimeters, insertable length 21.5 centimeters, insertable diameter 5.5 centimeters, weight 577 grams, suction cup with a 9.2-centimeter diameter and a height of 2.5 centimeters, the material is PVC. Get Real Dual Density: total length 23.5 centimeters, insertable length 20.75 centimeters, diameter 4 centimeters, weight 358 grams according to the store’s listing, the material is TPE, suction cup dimensions not published.

So the difference in length is marginal—0.75 centimeter more insertable for King Cock—while the difference in thickness is decisive: 1.5 centimeters more in diameter, which corresponds to almost 4.7 centimeters more in circumference. These are two different products for two different preferences, and the one who goes by the “9 inches” specification on both will be surprised.

The price picture points toward Toy Joy. At Lekosmek, which sells this item for 289 SEK, King Cock 9 inches costs 479 SEK. The same store also lists 23 centimeters and 5.3 centimeters in diameter for King Cock, meaning, rounded down from the manufacturer’s 24.0 and 5.5—the same rounding habit that affects the Toy Joy item.

Against King Cock Elite 9 inches—the same idea in silicone

The most interesting comparison is with the King Cock Elite 9" Silicone Dual Density Cock, article 577321 with UPC 603912769340. It’s exactly the same construction idea—a soft outer layer over a firmer core—but molded in silicone instead of soft plastic.

Pipedream lists total length 24.8 centimeters, insertable length 22.9 centimeters, insertable diameter 5.0 centimeters, weight 498 grams, and a suction cup with a 7.8-centimeter diameter. So Elite provides 2.15 centimeters more insertable length and 1 centimeter more in diameter, and the material is the important difference: silicone is a more narrowly defined material family than TPE, and Pipedream also names its own blend.

That’s the upgrade path available for someone who likes the dual density principle but wants a better-documented material. However, it costs significantly more—the Toy Joy item is in a price range where silicone options in the same length normally don’t exist.

Against Toy Joy’s own silicone dong—IPX7 and seven vibration patterns

Toy Joy themselves have a silicone product in the Get Real series, and it shows what the brand prints when they have something to print. Harness Dong Vibrating Silicone 19.5 cm, article 10150 with EAN 8713221834713 for a light skin tone, is stated to be made in 100 percent silicone, body-friendly, USB rechargeable, with seven vibration patterns and three speeds, suction-cup base, harness compatibility, and protection rating IPX7.

There are twice as many listed specifications as this article gets for a product from the same manufacturer in the same series. So the difference is not that Toy Joy lacks the ability to document—it’s that the TPE dongs are sold at a price point, and that documentation is one of the things that gets cut along the way down into that price class. If you can live with 19.5 centimeters instead of 23.5, you get a material with narrower definition, a rated water tolerance, and a motor included.

Price range: 216 to 329 SEK at six stores

Six Swedish stores sell the item with EAN 8713221821614. Cheapest in the lineup is Vuxenkul at 216 SEK; the most expensive is Taboo at 329 SEK. That’s 113 SEK, or a 52 percent difference, for the same item number and the same packaging.

However, the inventory situation changes the picture. Four of the six stores had the product in stock at the price check on September 12, 2026: Joyland at 229 SEK, Lekosmek at 289 SEK, Joyme at 309 SEK, and Taboo at 329 SEK. Vuxenkul’s 216 SEK and Sexonics 276 SEK were both listed as sold out. That means the difference you can actually buy is 100 SEK—i.e., 44 percent between the cheapest and most expensive available store—not 52.

One more observation about the pricing: Taboo, which is the most expensive at 329 SEK, also states a regular price of 395 SEK and presents its price as a markdown. It’s still 100 SEK more than what Joyland charges without calling it a promotion. Always compare the actual price, not the size of the discount.

The same item, five product names—and two incorrect links

The five store listings that point to the correct model do so under five different names: "Toy Joy: Get Real, Dual Density Dong, 23 cm" at Joyland, "Dual Density Dong 9 inch" at Vuxenkul, "Dildo Get Real 23 cm" at Lekosmek, "Dildo – Naturskön Get Real 23 cm" at Taboo, and "Toyjoy Dual Density Dong Tpe 23.5 Cm Skin" at Sexonic. Three different length indications for the same product, depending on whether the store starts from the manufacturer’s 23.5 centimeters, rounds to 23, or translates to 9 inches.

Two listings in the list deserve a clear warning. Sexonic has put the barcode 8713221821614 on two different items—both this model and the neighboring model Get Real Dual Density Dong 20.5 cm. And Joyme’s product page, which is in the price list at 309 SEK, applies when you open the 20.5-centimeter model, with its own product text, the weight 360 grams, and the package dimensions 50 × 150 × 305 millimeters.

It’s not a reason to doubt the prices—they come from the stores’ own feeds and are shown here unchanged—but it is a strong reason to check the item at the store’s checkout before you pay. The difference between the models is three centimeters of insertable length, and the person who orders the wrong one notices it only after the package is opened, when it’s harder to invoke the right of withdrawal.

Who is it for—and who is it not for?

It’s for you if you want a long and, at the same time, slender realistic shape. The combination of 20.75 centimeters insertable and 4 centimeters in diameter is unusual: most dildos in this length range are also thick, and a slim shaft with this length is a tougher format to find than you might think. It’s for you who want the dual-density feel—soft outer layer, firm core—without paying a silicone price, and for you who want to be able to use it hands-free on a smooth surface or in a harness with a four-centimeter ring.

It’s also for you if you want to be able to control what you buy. The manufacturer’s dimension drawing with three figures, a verifiable EAN, and an article number that four stores list is actually more traceability than much of this category offers.

It’s not for you if you require a documented material specification. The word TPE with no material declaration, no phthalate information, and no hardness value is the weakest message of all the compared products, and on that point both King Cock Elite and Toy Joy’s own silicone model are clearly better. It’s not for you if you want thickness—4 centimeters is slender for the length, and 1.5 centimeters is the difference compared with King Cock. It’s not for you if you want a rated water resistance on paper, because the manufacturer doesn’t publish any. And it’s not for you if you want vibration or a scrotum function, because the model has neither—despite what one of the store texts claims.

Warranty, complaints, and right of withdrawal

Toy Joy provides no own time-limited manufacturer warranty. The wording in the user manual is that the product is covered by applicable statutory warranty, that it covers defects in material and workmanship during normal use, and that normal wear and tear, accidents, improper use, lack of maintenance, own modifications, and damage caused by failure to follow the instructions are excluded. Proof of purchase is required when making a claim.

It’s a weaker commitment than several competitors in the category provide, but at least it’s written and searchable. The practical meaning is that your purchase security in Sweden rests entirely on the law, and that the law is stronger than many people think.

According to konsumentköplagen, you have three years to make a complaint about defects in the goods, regardless of what the manufacturer promises, and defects that show up within two years are, as a general rule, assumed to have been there from the start. For distance purchases, you also have a right of withdrawal for fourteen days under lagen om distansavtal och avtal utanför affärslokaler. Be aware that in practice the right of withdrawal is limited for hygiene products that have been taken out of a sealed package—however, the right to make a complaint about defects always applies. If you have questions about what applies in your case, Konsumentverket will guide you via Hallå konsument.

One final practical note related to the warranty issue. Since the manufacturer states that product-specific information is on the packaging, the box should be kept—in this case, it is both a material declaration and, together with the receipt, your documentation if something goes wrong.

Specifications: dimensions, material, usage, purchase, and warranty

Dimensions and weight

Total length
23.5 cm
The manufacturer’s dimension drawing. Joyland states 23 cm; Lekosmek and Taboo state 23 cm.
Insertion length
20.75 cm
The manufacturer’s dimension drawing. Joyland states 21 cm penetrating length
Diameter
Ø 4 cm
The manufacturer’s dimension drawing. Joyland states 4.5 cm and that the diameter varies 3.5–4.5 cm
Base’s share of total length
2.75 cm
The difference between the manufacturer’s two length measurements
Weight
358 g
Store information from Lekosmek and Taboo. The manufacturer does not publish any weight.
Suction cup diameter
Not published by the manufacturer
Package dimensions
Not published by the manufacturer

Material and construction

Material
TPE
Thermoplastic elastomer. No blend, supplier, or material certificate is published
Material composition
Dual density — soft outer layer over a firmer core
The manufacturer's construction graphic also shows a flexible channel through the core, Flexi Shaft
Hardness (Shore)
Not published by the manufacturer
Joyland lists “soft, medium” as store information
Phthalate declaration
Not published by the manufacturer
The packaging lists only “Body-safe”
Surface
Silky-smooth, smooth, and veined
Store claim from Joyland
Color
Light skin tone
Manufacturer’s variant name: light-skin-tone
Scrotum
No
Lekosmek claims the opposite; the manufacturer’s images show no scrotum

Use

Suction cup base
Yes
Marked “Suction base” on the packaging
Harness-compatible
Yes, with ring Ø 4 cm
Store claim from Taboo and Vuxenkul. The manufacturer does not state anything
Vibration
No
No motor and no battery
Recommended lubricant
Water-based
Oil- and silicone-based can damage the material according to the instructions for use
Maximum temperature
45 °C
The manufacturer’s instructions for use. Excludes boiling and dishwasher
Enclosure rating
Not published by the manufacturer
Vuxenkul specifies “Water-resistant: Yes” as a store listing
Delivery contents
The product in a blister pack
No storage pouch or accessories are specified by the manufacturer

Purchase and warranty

EAN
8713221821614
The light-skin-tone variant
Manufacturer’s item number
10183 (SKU 10183-SKIN)
Manufacturer
Toy Joy, Wijchen, Netherlands
Brand belonging to Scala 2.0 B.V., according to the user manual
Price
216–329 SEK
Six stores, checked on September 12, 2026
Lowest price in stock
229 SEK
Joyland. Four of six stores had the item in stock
Manufacturer warranty
None beyond statutory
The user manual refers to the applicable statutory warranty and requires proof of purchase
Right to make a complaint
3 years
According to konsumentköplagen, regardless of the manufacturer’s commitments

Common questions about Toy Joy Get Real Dual Density Dong 23 cm

Is it 23 or 23.5 centimeters long?
The manufacturer’s own measurement drawing states 23.5 centimeters in total length and 20.75 centimeters in insertable length. The stores round differently: Vuxenkul reproduces the manufacturer’s number exactly, while Joyland, Lekosmek, and Taboo write 23 centimeters, and Joyland also lists 21 centimeters in penetrating length. It’s the same article with the same barcode, 8713221821614—the only difference is how the stores round. Use the manufacturer’s 23.5 and 20.75 centimeters.
What does dual density mean, and what is Flexi Shaft?
Dual density means the product is molded in two materials with different hardness: a soft outer layer that imitates skin and a firmer core inside that gives the shaft stability. The manufacturer’s own construction graphic also shows a third detail—a flexible channel that runs through the core along the entire shaft, which is what they call Flexi Shaft. The channel allows the stiff core to bend instead of being stiff all the time. The outer layer is marketed as Soft Touch Technology, and the packaging has a sample window labeled Try me.
What material is it made of, and is TPE phthalate-free?
The material is listed by the manufacturer as TPE, thermoplastic elastomer. It’s an umbrella term for a group of soft plastics, not a recipe, and therefore it says less about the product than the word silicone does. Toy Joy does not publish a phthalate declaration for this article—neither on the product page, in the product data, on the packaging, or in the instructions for use. The packaging’s only material commitment is the word Body-safe. None of the six Swedish stores either claim that the product is phthalate-free. The absence of a declaration does not mean the product contains phthalates, but it does mean that the question is not answered.
What lube should I use?
Water-based. The manufacturer’s instructions expressly state that oil-based and silicone-based lubricants can damage certain product materials, and both Joyland and Taboo repeat the recommendation. Silicone-based lubricant attacks soft elastomer surfaces over time and makes them sticky or matte, and a surface that has started to break down can’t be restored. Oil-based products such as coconut oil leave a film that’s hard to remove and that traps dirt. Water-based lube is also the only one that works together with a latex condom.
Is it waterproof, and can I clean it in the dishwasher?
The manufacturer does not publish any enclosure rating and no water-resistance information for this item. The retailer Vuxenkul states “Water-resistant: Yes,” but that is a store claim without coverage from the manufacturer. What the manufacturer does state instead is that the product should be cleaned before and after each use with lukewarm water and mild soap or a cleaning agent intended for intimate products, and that it must not be heated, frozen, or exposed to temperatures above 45 degrees. A dishwasher and boiling are therefore out of the question. The product has no motor, battery, or openings, so there is no electronics that could suffer water damage.
Does it fit in a strap-on harness?
According to two stores, yes. Taboo states that the dildo fits most strap-on harnesses with a ring size that corresponds to a diameter of 4 centimeters, and that a flexible ring can handle smaller deviations. Vuxenkul writes that it can be attached to a universal harness. The manufacturer itself does not mention any harness compatibility for this item, but the round flat suction-cup base is the base shape that works in most harnesses. Check the ring size of your own harness—harness rings are typically sold in three or four sizes.
What does it weigh?
The manufacturer does not publish a weight. Two stores give the same figure: both Lekosmek and Taboo state 358 grams, and both list the item under the manufacturer’s item number 10183 with the correct barcode, which makes the information more credible than a single store’s number. Put it in context: Pipedream lists 577 grams for the King Cock 9 inches in PVC and 498 grams for the Elite version in silicone, at roughly the same length. The lower weight is a result of the slimmer shape and means the suction cup has less to keep it in place.
What warranty applies, and what happens if it breaks?
Toy Joy provides no own time-limited manufacturer warranty. The user manual states that the product is covered by applicable statutory warranty, that it covers defects in materials and workmanship during normal use, and that normal wear and tear, accidents, improper use, lack of maintenance, and any alterations by the user are excluded. Proof of purchase is required. In Sweden, this means you have a 3-year right to complain under the konsumentköplagen and a 14-day right of withdrawal for distance purchases under the distansavtalslagen, with the practical exception that the right of withdrawal is limited for sealed hygienic articles that have been opened. Save the box—the manufacturer states that the product-specific information is right there.

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Toy Joy Get Real Dual Density Dong 23 cm is ranked på plats 8 av 19 in realistic dildo best i test, where the entire category is compared against each other using five shared criteria. Guiden vinns av Silexd Silex-D Dual Density Silicone Dildo 17,6 cm.

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Sources

Every numerical piece of information in the text can be traced to one of the sources below. The links were checked manually on the specified date.

  1. Product name: Dual Density Dong TPE 23.5 cm, the material is TPE, the manufacturer’s item number 10183 with the variant light-skin-tone (SKU 10183-SKIN), the barcode 8713221821614, the product category Realistic Dildos and Dongs, and the product text about the suction cup base, natural silhouette, soft outer surface and firm core: ToyJoy — official product page, Dual Density Dong TPE 23.5 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  2. The manufacturer’s own dimension drawing in the product gallery, which states overall length 23.5 cm, insertable length 20.75 cm and diameter Ø 4 cm: ToyJoy — dimension drawing in the product gallery for item 10183 — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  3. The packaging’s own details: the model name 9 Inch Dong, the series name Get Real by TOYJOY, the labeling Dual Density Flexi Shaft, Soft Touch Technology, Body-safe and Suction base, as well as the Try Me try-it window. This is the complete material declaration the manufacturer provides on the box: ToyJoy — packaging image in the product gallery for item 10183 — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  4. The manufacturer’s design graphic for Dual Density Flexi Shaft, which shows the soft outer surface layer, the firmer core and the flexible channel inside the shaft: ToyJoy — design graphic, reproduced on Joyland's product page — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  5. The manufacturer’s general instructions for use: that product-specific information about material, battery type, charging method, water resistance rating and model number is on the packaging, the age limit is 18 years, that the product is sold as a novelty item without medical purpose, the requirement for water-based lubricant, the temperature limit 45 °C, the prohibition against bending, twisting and stretching the product, cleaning with lukewarm water and mild soap before and after each use, separate storage to avoid reactions between materials, the rule that products without a water resistance rating should not be exposed to water, that intimate products should not be shared without hygienic protection, and the warranty wording about statutory warranty and the manufacturer details TOYJOY, Bijsterhuizen 3151, 6604 LV Wijchen, the Netherlands, and that TOYJOY is a registered trademark belonging to SCALA 2.0 B.V.: ToyJoy — User Manual (PDF), the section Safety & User Instructions — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  6. The page where the manufacturer publishes its general instructions for use, and which does not contain any product-specific manual for item 10183: ToyJoy — User Manual — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  7. Comparison data for the sister model Dual Density Dong TPE 19 cm: item number 10174, the light-skin-tone variant, EAN 8713221819451 and the manufacturer’s description Dual Density Cock 7.5 Inch: ToyJoy — official product page, Dual Density Dong TPE 19 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  8. Comparison data for the Deluxe Dual Density Dong TPE 21 cm: item number 10118, EAN 8713221832467 and the manufacturer’s information about Supreme Vital Skin technology and the suction cup base: ToyJoy — official product page, Deluxe Dual Density Dong TPE 21 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  9. Comparison data for ToyJoys own silicone dong Harness Dong Vibrating Silicone 19.5 cm: item number 10150, EAN 8713221834713 for light-skin-tone, 100 percent silicone, seven vibration patterns, three speeds, USB charging, suction cup base, harness compatibility, and an ingress protection rating IPX7: ToyJoy — official product page, Harness Dong Vibrating Silicone 19.5 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  10. Comparison data for Pipedream King Cock 9" Cock: item number 550421, UPC 603912349979, the material is PVC, total length 9.4 in. (24,0 cm), insertable length 21.5 cm, insertable diameter 5.5 cm, weight 577 grams, suction cup with a diameter of 9.2 cm and a height of 2.5 cm, as well as the packaging type clamshell with a paper insert: Pipedream Products — official product page, King Cock 9" Cock — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  11. Comparison data for Pipedream King Cock Elite 9" Silicone Dual Density Cock: item number 577321, UPC 603912769340, the material is silicone, total length 24.8 cm, insertable length 22.9 cm, insertable diameter 5.0 cm, weight 498 grams, and suction cup with a diameter of 7.8 cm: Pipedream Products — official product page, King Cock Elite 9" Silicone Dual Density Cock — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  12. Store details: length 23 cm, insertable length 21 cm and diameter 4.5 cm, the surface description is silk-smooth, smooth and veined (ådrig), the hardness is soft and medium, the information that the product does not vibrate, the recommendation of water-based lube, and the product text stating that the diameter varies between 3.5 and 4.5 cm: Joyland — product page, Toy Joy: Get Real, Dual Density Dong, 23 cm (item 22102) — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  13. Store details: EAN 8713221821614, the store’s own item number SC3576-1, total length 23.5 cm, 20.75 cm insertable, diameter 4 cm, the material TPE, “Water-resistant: Yes”, “Vibration: No”, and that the product can be attached to a universal harness: Vuxenkul — product page, Dual Density Dong 9 inch — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  14. Store details: barcode 8713221821614, store SKU 10183, weight 358 grams, length 23 cm, diameter 4 cm, the material TPE, the claim that the product is CE-marked, and the claim that it is designed with a pouch (pung): Lekosmek — product page, Dildo Get Real 23 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  15. Store details: barcode 8713221821614, store SKU 10183, weight 358 grams, length 23 cm, diameter 4 cm, body-safe TPE, strong suction cup, harness compatibility for ring size 4 cm, the recommendation of water-based lube, and the stated regular price 395 SEK: Taboo — product page, Dildo – Naturskön Get Real 23 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  16. The store’s indication of EAN13 8713221821614 for the article ToyJoy Dual Density Dong TPE 23.5 cm SKIN — the independent confirmation that the barcode in the product feed belongs to exactly this model: Sexonic — product page, ToyJoy Dual Density Dong TPE 23.5 cm SKIN — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  17. Sexonics’ other listing, which states the same EAN13 8713221821614 for the neighboring model Get Real Dual Density Dong 20.5 cm — the duplication that makes the same barcode appear on two different items at the same store: Sexonic — product page, GET REAL – DUAL DENSITY DONG 20,5 CM SKIN — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  18. Joymes product page, which applies to the other model at 20,5 cm and states weight 360 grams and packaging dimensions 50 × 150 × 305 mm, as well as the description of two material layers with a soft outer surface and a firm inner surface: Joyme — product page, Get Real – Dual Density Dong – 20,5 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  19. Comparison price 479 SEK for King Cock 9 inches (barcode 603912349979) from the same store that sells this item for 289 SEK, as well as the store’s own deviating measurements of 23 cm and diameter 5,3 cm and the stated weight 609 grams: Lekosmek — product page, King Cock Dildo 23 cm — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  20. Phthalates as softeners in soft plastic, their health effects, and the limitations within the EU: Kemikalieinspektionen — Phthalates — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  21. Kemikalieinspektionens oversight project about sex toys: during 2016, 16 companies were inspected and 44 sex toys were checked with regard to chemical content and labeling. The report was published in 2017 and comprises 17 pages: Kemikalieinspektionen — Oversight 1/17: Oversight of sex toys — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  22. That the first international standard for sex toys, ISO 3533, was published on September 29, 2021, that it is voluntary to follow, and that it sets requirements for design, materials, and consumer information: SIS (Swedish Institute for Standards) — Now the world’s first standard for sex toys is available — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  23. Three years’ right of complaint for defects in the goods, and that a defect that shows up within two years of the purchase is, as a main rule, presumed to have already been there at delivery: Konsumentköplag (2022:260) — Sveriges riksdag — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  24. Fourteen days’ right of withdrawal when buying at a distance: Lag (2005:59) on distance contracts and contracts outside business premises — Sveriges riksdag — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  25. Guidance on the right of withdrawal and the exception for sealed hygiene items: Konsumentverket — kontrollerad 13 September 2026
  26. Prices, stock status, and item numbers at six stores for EAN 8713221821614. Retrieved from the stores’ own product flows on September 12, 2026: Adtraction (kanal Testkollen) and Addrevenue (kanal Testra) — kontrollerad 13 September 2026

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