Toy Joy Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm: review

Toy Joy Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm at a glance — here’s what you get

Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm is a realistically shaped dildo made of phthalate-free PVC with a suction cup, manufactured by the Dutch ToyJoy and sold under the series name Get Real by ToyJoy. It’s a product without electronics: no motor, no battery, no app, and no modes. The entire specification therefore comes down to three things — dimensions, material, and base — and those are exactly the three things that determine whether the product is right for you or not.

The manufacturer’s figures are as follows: total length 28 centimeters, insertable length 23 centimeters, and maximum diameter 6.5 centimeters. The material is stated as phthalate-free PVC, the color as light skin tone, and the shape has molded ridges along the shaft and a scrotum above the suction cup base. The manufacturer’s item number is 10207-SKIN and the EAN number is 8713221827111 — the same number that appears in the barcode field on ToyJoy’s own product page, which means this specs review can be sure it’s about the correct item and not about any of the nearby sizes in the same series.

In Sweden, the item is listed in six store listings across five stores, priced between 487 and 709 SEK. Three of the listings had the item in stock at the price check. What’s immediately worth knowing is that the manufacturer publishes substantially less than the stores do: ToyJoy’s product page only states the total length in running text, while insertable length and diameter are only shown in a dimensions graphic in the image gallery. Weight is not published at all.

What is Get Real by ToyJoy — and why does the product have different names in different stores?

Get Real is ToyJoy’s line of realistically shaped dildos and dongs, and Extreme is the sub-brand for the series’ largest models. It sounds simple, but in the store it gets messy, because stores choose different parts of the name as the brand. Vuxen writes Toy Joy, Blush Me writes ToyJoy, Joyme and Vuxenkul write Get Real, and Sexonic does both—the store has two separate product pages for exactly the same EAN, one under the brand ToyJoy and one under Get Real, both for 640 SEK.

These are not two products. It’s the same item number from the manufacturer, listed twice. If you search for the product on your own, it’s worth knowing, because otherwise you easily end up thinking there’s a more expensive and a cheaper version. There’s only one version, and the manufacturer sells it in a single color: light skin tone. Stores call the color Nude, Beige, Skin and Ljus Hudton, but it’s the same casting.

The name also has a practical side. The series includes three Extreme dildos in increasing sizes—XL at 25.5 centimeters, XXL at 28 centimeters, and XXXL at 34 centimeters—and all three look the same in a thumbnail image. Check the EAN number before ordering. XL is 8713221827104, XXL is 8713221827111, and XXXL is 8713221827128.

How big is 28 centimeters in practice?

Size is the whole reason the product exists, so it’s worth breaking down what the numbers actually mean. Of the 28 centimeters, 23 centimeters are insertable according to the manufacturer’s measurement chart. The remaining five centimeters are the scrotum and the suction cup—that is, the part that sits outside the body and is the very prerequisite for the product to be able to stay still on a surface.

The diameter of 6.5 centimeters is the number that matters most. If the shaft were perfectly round, that diameter corresponds to a circumference of roughly 20.4 centimeters—circumference is the diameter times pi, which is pure geometry and doesn’t require its own source. It’s noticeably thicker than an average dildo, and in practice the thickness is a harder limitation than the length: a product that’s too long can be used by inserting only part of it, while a product that’s too thick can’t be used at all.

What can be concluded from the proportions is that 23 centimeters of insertable length combined with a 6.5-centimeter diameter places the product in the upper part of the category, not in the middle. The manufacturer themselves write that the model is aimed at “extreme lovers”. If you’re unsure what works, the smaller sister model at 25.5 centimeters with a 6-centimeter diameter is a more reasonable starting point, and it also costs less.

An observation about the shops’ figures belongs here, because otherwise it’s easy to get confused. Adult, Blush Me, and Vuxenkul all state the same dimensions as the manufacturer: a total length of 28 centimeters, an insertable length of 23 centimeters, and a diameter of 6.5 centimeters. But Vuxenkul’s own description text contradicts itself—it begins with “this exclusive 28 cm long dildo” and ends with “this fantastic 25 cm long dildo.” It’s a pure writing mistake in the retail chain, and the manufacturer’s 28 centimeters applies.

Material: phthalate-free PVC and what the promise actually covers

Material is the only characteristic of an intimate product that cannot be compensated for with experience or care, and it is also the only characteristic that determines whether the product is still hygienic after a few years. ToyJoy lists a single material for the entire product: phthalate-free PVC. This applies to the shaft, the balls, and the suction cup—there is no material separation between the parts, because the entire product is molded in one piece.

PVC vs silicone — the difference that determines care

PVC and silicone are two completely different material families, and they behave differently in three points that matter in this product category.

• Softener. Silicone is soft by itself; the softness comes from the polymer’s own structure. PVC is basically a hard material and becomes soft only when softeners are added. Kemikalieinspektionen describes phthalates as precisely that group of softeners that have traditionally been used to make PVC flexible, and several of them are restricted or prohibited within the EU because they can affect the hormone system.
• Migration. Softeners in PVC are not chemically bound to the plastic in the same way as in a cross-linked silicone. They can migrate out of the material over time, and that’s exactly why ToyJoy’s own user manual includes the instruction to store products separated from each other “to avoid possible reactions between different materials.” Two soft plastic products that lie against each other in a drawer can stick to each other or leave marks.
• Surface. Silicone is non-porous, and a non-porous surface can be cleaned because there are no microscopic cavities where residue can get stuck. The manufacturer does not publish any information about the porosity of the surface for this product, and that is the single most important piece of information that is missing from the specification.

What this means in practice is that a PVC product requires more careful care than a silicone product and has a shorter reasonable service life, but it costs a fraction of the price. That’s the trade-off, and it’s completely legitimate—provided you know about it before you buy. If you want the same shape and size in silicone, it’s available, for example in Pipedreams Elite series, but the price tag looks different.

Phthalate-free — what the promise covers and what it does not do

ToyJoy explicitly writes “made of phthalate free PVC” on its product page, and all Swedish retailers repeat the wording. It is an unambiguous and verifiable commitment, and it is worth something: phthalate-free PVC means that the plasticizers come from a different chemical group than phthalates, and phthalates are the regulated substances in the EU, according to Kemikalieinspektionen (the Swedish Chemicals Agency).

But the commitment doesn’t tell the whole story. The manufacturer does not publish which plasticizer is used instead, and there is no published material data sheet and no material declaration beyond the word “PVC”. The packaging bears the “BODY-SAFE” symbol, but BODY-SAFE is the manufacturer’s own labeling and not a standardized certification with a publicly available requirements specification behind it. What can therefore be established is that phthalate-free is stated by the manufacturer, while the rest of the material’s composition is not disclosed.

For someone who is sensitive, this is a relevant limitation, and there is no latex declaration either. ToyJoy’s manual addresses the issue generally by stating that the product should not be used by anyone who is allergic to or sensitive to any of the materials listed on the packaging — and, as mentioned, the packaging says only PVC.

The weight the manufacturer does not publish

ToyJoy does not publish a weight for Extreme XXL Dildo. The weight field in the manufacturer’s own product data is set to zero, and the running text mentions no mass measurement.

The only weight information that exists in any stage comes from the retailer Joyme, which in its structured product data lists 1,330 grams. That figure should be read with caution. It may refer to the product alone or the product including a blister package, and Joyme does not specify which. A reasonableness check can be done against a comparable product where the manufacturer actually provides the weight: Pipedream lists 1,100 grams for King Cock 11 inches with balls, which measures 28.7 centimeters and has a 6.3-centimeter insertable diameter — so, in practice, it is about the same volume of PVC. The order of magnitude therefore matches, but treat 1,330 grams as a store-provided figure rather than a manufacturer-provided figure.

That the weight is interesting in the first place depends on the suction cup. The heavier the product is, the greater the lifting force on the base when the shaft is bent to the side, and the more important it is that the surface underneath is completely smooth. A dildo that weighs just over one kilogram is in the weight class where the suction cup’s diameter starts to matter — and ToyJoy also does not publish that figure, while Pipedream states a suction cup diameter of 9.0 centimeters and a height of 2.5 centimeters for its corresponding base.

The suction cup: hands-free, harness, and surface

The suction cup is the feature that the manufacturer itself highlights most clearly. ToyJoy describes the foot as a “suction-cup base” that provides a hands-free experience, and the packaging carries its own symbol for “SUCTION BASE.” It is also the design detail that sets this product apart from a dildo without a foot: a suction cup allows the product to be attached to a surface and used with body weight and movement rather than being guided by the wrist.

What the manufacturer does not publish is the suction cup’s dimensions. Neither the diameter nor the height is stated, and there is no information about how much weight or side force the foot is intended to hold. This is a real shortcoming in the specifications, because it is exactly those figures that determine how well the foot works on a product of this size. For comparison, Pipedream lists both the diameter (9.0 cm) and the height (2.5 cm) for the suction cup on its King Cock 11 inch.

What you can say generally about suction cups applies here as well, of course. They adhere to completely smooth, sealed surfaces—tile, the side of a bathtub, laminated flooring, a mirror. They adhere worse, or not at all, to seams, textured plastic, untreated wood, and porous surfaces. A lightly moistened surface improves adhesion. An adult toys store text (Vuxenkul) describes the same use case: attach it to the floor, in the shower, or on the wall.

Does the Extreme XXL Dildo work with a harness?

This is a question where the manufacturer is silent and the stores respond. ToyJoy’s product page says nothing about harness compatibility. Two of the Swedish retailers do: Vuxen writes “is well suited to use with a harness,” and Vuxenkul states “Harness compatible: Yes”. These are store details, not manufacturer details, and they should be read as such.

Purely from a design standpoint, the principle is the same as what Pipedream describes for its own equivalent: a suction-cup foot makes a dildo harness-compatible, because it is the foot that clamps onto the harness’s O-ring. But size sets a practical limit. A dildo that weighs around one kilogram places noticeably more load on both the harness and the O-ring than a normal-sized model, and the O-ring must be large enough for a shaft with a diameter of 6.5 centimeters. A standard harness with the smallest ring isn’t enough here. Check the harness’s ring size before you buy, not after.

Can it be used anally?

Several stores categorize the item as an anal dildo—Vuxenkul lists it under “Anal toys > Anal dildos,” and Joyme describes it as suitable for reaching deeper points. The manufacturer makes no such promise on the product page.

ToyJoy's own user manual, however, clearly states the principle: “Products intended for anal use are designed with a flared base and should only be used as intended.” The design with a suction cup base foot meets the requirement for a wide foot purely geometrically, but the manufacturer does not expressly state that the product is intended for anal use. What can be established, then, is that the foot is of the right type, while the intended use is not specified by the manufacturer. The manual is also clear that the product is sold as an ”adult novelty product” and is not intended for medical or therapeutic purposes.

Lubricant: the manufacturer and the stores disagree

There is a real contradiction in the sources here, and it is worth presenting it plainly because it affects how you take care of the product.

Stores say it’s silicone and water. Both Vuxen and Blush Me write that Extreme XXL Dildo is ”compatible with both silicone- and water-based lubricants”. The wording comes from the distributor's Swedish product text and is reproduced verbatim by several stores.

The manufacturer’s manual says water. ToyJoy's own safety and user instructions say: ”For additional comfort, use only a water-based lubricant. Oil-based lubricants and silicone-based lubricants may damage certain product materials.” This is a general instruction for the entire range, not a product-specific instruction, and the reservation lies in the words ”certain product materials”.

How should you deal with that? The background to the warning is that silicone-based lubricants break down silicone products—that is where the damage occurs, and this product is not made of silicone. That is likely why the distributor dares to promise silicone compatibility. But since the manufacturer's own documentation is the higher authority, and since ToyJoy does not publish any material-specific instruction that contradicts the manual, the advice is simple: use a water-based lubricant. It works with everything; there is no situation where it is worse, and you avoid ending up with a product that has become sticky due to a reaction that no documentation has promised it can handle. Oil-based products such as coconut oil should be avoided completely—they leave a film that is difficult to remove.

Cleaning, storage, and lifespan

ToyJoy's user manual contains the instructions that apply. They are short, and they are worth following literally, because a PVC product does not have the same margins as a silicone product.

• Clean the product before and after each use.
• Use lukewarm water with mild soap or a suitable toy cleaner.
• Rinse thoroughly after cleaning.
• Dry the product completely before putting it away.
• Store in a clean, dry, and dust-free place, away from direct sunlight and heat.
• Store products separately to avoid reactions between different materials.
• Do not expose the product to temperatures above 45 degrees — it must neither be heated up nor frozen.
• Check the product before each use and stop using it if it is damaged, cracked, torn, or deformed.

Is the Extreme XXL Dildo waterproof?

The question has two answers depending on who you ask, and that’s typical for products without electronics. The manufacturer publishes no IP rating — there is no IPX number either on the product page or in the manual. The manual, on the other hand, refers to the packaging for water classification and adds that products without a specified rating should not be exposed to water.

The store Vuxenkul, however, lists “Waterproof: Yes” in its specification table. That is a store statement. It’s also reasonable in substance: the product is a solid PVC casting with no motor, battery, charging port, or electronics, and there is therefore no opening where water can get into something that could be damaged. The manual’s wording about water classification is written for motor-driven products — all three user manuals ToyJoy publishes apply to motor-driven items, and there is no product-specific manual for this one.

In practice, that means the product can be rinsed off under running water and using it in a shower or bathtub is not a problem, but that the formal classification is missing. If you want a documented waterproofness statement, there isn’t one here.

Why PVC should be stored separately — and what happens otherwise

The instruction to store products separately is the line in ToyJoy’s manual that is most often ignored, and it’s also the one that most often ruins products. The reason is that soft plastics contain plasticizers that can migrate between materials when two surfaces are pressed against each other for a long time. The result is sticky surfaces, discoloration, or, at worst, two products getting stuck in each other.

The solution is simple and costs nothing: a separate bag or a separate compartment. No storage pouch is included in the delivery — the manufacturer’s packaging is a hard-plastic blister with a paper card, so it’s not something that works as long-term storage after the seal has been broken.

In practice, the lifespan of a PVC product is determined by the surface, not the shape. When the surface starts to feel sticky or when the material becomes discolored, the product is used up, because a changed surface can no longer be cleaned properly. With proper cleaning, drying, and separate storage, it lasts significantly longer than without — but it will never become a ten-year product the way a silicone dildo can.

Documentation: what ToyJoy publishes and what is missing

A desk review that is based on specifications must also show the specification’s gaps, and for this article there are remarkably many. Here’s how it looks when I compile it.

The manufacturer publishes: product name, series affiliation, total length 28 cm, insertable length 23 cm, and diameter 6.5 cm (only in the dimension graphic, not in the running text), the phthalate-free PVC material, the color light skin tone, the presence of a suction cup, veins, and scrotum, article number 10207-SKIN, EAN 8713221827111, and the packaging design.

The manufacturer does not publish: weight, circumference, the suction cup’s diameter and height, the shaft’s hardness or shore value, the material’s exact composition beyond the word PVC, whether the product is intended for anal use, whether it is sel-compatible, any IP rating, any product-specific manual, and any packaging dimensions.

There are more gaps than you would like, and the difference versus a manufacturer that discloses everything becomes clear in the comparison a bit further down: Pipedream publishes, for its corresponding model, both total length, insertable length, insertable diameter, suction cup diameter, suction cup height, product weight, packaging type, warranty period, and UPC. It’s the same type of product in the same type of material, and yet one specification is twice as informative as the other.

Six shops, seven article numbers, one EAN

One last thing worth knowing if you compare prices yourself. The same item has different numbers at each step: 10207-SKIN with the manufacturer, SC4052-1 as the manufacturer’s article number according to Vuxenkul, WOO-10381 with Vuxen, 10381 at Blush Me, D-234605 at Joyme, and reference numbers 72 and 18366 with Sexonic.

The only number that’s shared and unambiguous is EAN 8713221827111. Use it, and only it, when you check that a shop really sells the same model. The shop’s own numbers don’t say anything about which variant you get, and the names — Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm, Extreme XXL Dildo 11 Inch, Get Real Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm Skin — are all the same.

Toy Joy Extreme XXL compared with the alternatives

Three comparisons are relevant: up and down within the same series, versus the best-selling competitor in the same material and price range, and versus the same shape in silicone. All specifications below come from each respective manufacturer’s own information, and all prices come from the shops’ product feeds on 29 July 2026.

Against Extreme XL 25.5 cm and Extreme XXXL — which size?

The Extreme series is available in three sizes, and the difference between them is not just length but also girth. Extreme XL measures 25.5 centimeters total, 21 centimeters insertable, and 6 centimeters maximum diameter according to the retailer Blush Me, and costs 349 SEK. Extreme XXL — the model this text is about — is 28 centimeters total, 23 centimeters insertable, and 6.5 centimeters in diameter according to the manufacturer, from 487 SEK. Extreme XXXL is the largest, and it has its own review on the site; it costs from 495 SEK.

So the step from XL to XXL costs about 138 SEK and gives 2.5 centimeters more total length, 2 centimeters more insertable length, and half a centimeter more in diameter. In figures it sounds marginal, but half a centimeter in diameter is a volume increase of about 17 percent in the shaft, and that’s what you actually notice. If you’re unsure between the two, the advice is to take the smaller one: a product that’s too small can still be used, but one that’s too thick won’t work.

A word of caution about the series naming. The model names do not consistently indicate the same thing. For XXL, the name matches the total length — the manufacturer’s dimension graphic confirms 28 centimeters total. For XXXL, the model is called 34 cm by the manufacturer, but Blush Me’s description states a total length of 42 centimeters and 34 centimeters as the insertable length. That means the number in the product name refers to total length in one case and insertable length in the other. Always read the dimension graphic, not the name.

Against Pipedream King Cock 11 inches — 18 SEK apart

The closest competitor is Pipedream King Cock 11 inches with shaft, which is the same base product: realistically shaped PVC dildo with a suction cup in the same size class. Blush Me sells it for 469 SEK, which is 18 SEK less than Extreme XXL at its cheapest.

Pipedream’s own figures are 28.7 centimeters total length, 23.2 centimeters insertable length, 6.3 centimeters insertable diameter, a suction cup that’s 9.0 centimeters in diameter and 2.5 centimeters in height, and a product weight of 1,100 grams. The material is listed as PVC — in the store line under the name Fantaflesh — and the packaging as a blister with a paper card, just like ToyJoy. The warranty period is given as 90 days. The dimensions are therefore practically identical: 7 millimeters longer, 2 millimeters longer insertable length, and 2 millimeters narrower.

What differs is not the product but the reporting. Pipedream publishes weight, suction cup dimensions, packaging type, and warranty period; ToyJoy publishes none of that. For someone who chooses based on data, it’s a clear advantage for King Cock. On the other hand, Pipedream’s Swedish store text lists 24.5 centimeters insertable and a 6.4 centimeters diameter, which doesn’t match the manufacturer’s 23.2 and 6.3 — so the entries aren’t more reliable there either. What ultimately decides between the two is therefore price, stock status, and which shape you prefer, not the specification.

Compared to King Cock Elite in silicone — what does it cost to do without PVC?

Do you want the same size and shape but in silicone instead of PVC? King Cock Elite 11 inches is available. Pipedream states that the material is Elite Silicone with double density — a soft surface over a stiffer inner shaft — with a suction cup of the type Body Dock, silicone compatibility, a recommendation for water-based lubricant, and a one-year warranty. In a Swedish store, King Cock Elite Realistic Silicone Dildo 28 cm costs 886 SEK at Sexonic.

So it’s about 400 SEK more than Extreme XXL at its cheapest, or almost double. For that amount, you get a pore-free material that can be cleaned completely, a double-density construction that gives a different feel than a uniform molded casting, and a guarantee period of twelve months against ToyJoy’s—only the statutory guarantee. You don’t, however, get any extra size, and you get a product that can’t handle silicone-based lubricant.

The conclusion is straightforward. If the product is meant to be used often and for a long time, silicone is almost always the right choice, and the price difference is made up for in durability. If it’s meant as an experiment to see whether the size works at all, it’s hard to justify paying almost double before you know.

Price range: 487 to 709 SEK and three listings with stock

Six shop listings from five Swedish shops sell the item with EAN 8713221827111. The cheapest is Vuxen at 487 SEK, and the most expensive is Joyme at 709 SEK. That’s a difference of 222 SEK or 46 percent for exactly the same molded piece, the same color, and the same packaging.

The stock situation changes the picture less than usual here, which is unusually positive. Three listings had the item in stock at the price check: Vuxen at 487 SEK, Blush Me at 495 SEK, and Joyme at 709 SEK. That means the gap between the cheapest and the next-cheapest available is only eight and a half kronor, while the jump up to the third is 214 SEK. Vuxenkul at 510 SEK and Sexonics both listings at 640 SEK were listed as sold out.

Two of the shops show a regular price that’s clearly higher than the current price. Both Vuxen and Blush Me state 695 SEK as the regular price, Vuxenkul states 729 SEK, and Sexonic lists 69,99 euro before discount. So the regular price is in the same ballpark as Joyme’s current price—which in practice means that 709 SEK isn’t an overprice but rather a full price, and that the three lower prices are sale prices that could revert.

Shipping cost is worth a line at this price level, since it varies more than usual. Blush Me states 29 SEK in shipping in its product feed, Sexonic states 98 SEK, and Vuxenkul states zero. On a purchase around 500 SEK, it can shift the ranking between the shops, so check the total at checkout and not just the item price in the table above.

Who is Toy Joy Extreme XXL Dildo for—and who is it not for?

It’s right for you if you’re specifically looking for size and already know that 6.5 centimeters in diameter is close to what works. It’s right for you if you want a suction cup and hands-free use against a smooth surface, if you want realistic detailing with veins and the scrotum rather than an abstract shape, and if you want to get that combination without paying a silicone price. Also, the fact that the manufacturer provides both total length and insertable length in a measurement graphic is better than nothing—there are more products than you think in this category that only state a single length measurement.

It’s not for you if you’re unsure about the size. A 23-centimeter insertable length and 6.5-centimeter diameter isn’t something to buy on a trial basis, and the series’ own XL model at 25.5 centimeters with a 6-centimeter diameter is available for 349 SEK. It’s not for you if you prioritize material over size—then silicone is the right way, and King Cock Elite is the closest option. It’s not for you if you want silicone-based glide lubricant with the manufacturer’s blessing, because ToyJoy’s manual advises against it, even though the stores say the opposite.

And it’s not for you if you require a complete specification before buying. Weight, circumference, suction cup dimensions, hardness, and material composition are missing from the manufacturer’s published data, and one of the few figures that do exist—1,330 grams—comes from a single retailer without specifying what it refers to. That’s the biggest objection to the product, and it isn’t about the product itself so much as how little the manufacturer tells you about it.

Warranty, complaints, and right of withdrawal

ToyJoy provides no voluntary manufacturer’s warranty for this product. The wording in the manufacturer’s user manual is: ”This product is covered by the applicable statutory warranty.” The warranty covers material and manufacturing defects during normal use and excludes normal wear and tear, accidents, improper use, lack of maintenance, and modifications of your own. Proof of purchase is required. So it’s not a guarantee beyond the law, but a reference to the law—unlike, for example, Pipedream, which states 90 days for King Cock and twelve months for the Elite series.

ToyJoy’s general terms and conditions include two time limits that are worth knowing if you buy directly from the manufacturer. Visible defects, deviations, or delivery shortages must be reported within 48 hours after receiving the product, and hidden defects must be notified in writing within two months from the time the defect is discovered. The terms also state a 14-day right of withdrawal, that the buyer pays the direct return shipping cost, that the refund is made no later than 30 days after the returned product is received—and that products with a broken hygiene seal cannot be returned.

If you shop at any of the Swedish stores above, on the other hand, Swedish consumer law applies, and it is more favorable. Under the Consumer Sales Act (konsumentköplagen), you have a three-year right to complain about faults in the item, regardless of what the manufacturer promises in its manual. For distance purchases, you also have a right of withdrawal for fourteen days under the Act on Distance Contracts and Contracts Outside Business Premises (distansavtalslagen).

Be aware that in practice the right of withdrawal is limited for hygiene items that have been removed from a sealed package—this applies to this product, which is delivered in a sealed blister. The right to complain about faults, however, always applies, and the three-year period is significantly longer than both ToyJoy’s two-month period and Pipedream’s 90 days. If you have questions about what applies in your case, Konsumentverket guides you via Hallå konsument.