ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo 34 cm: review

ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo at a glance — here’s what you get

ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo is a realistically designed dildo in the upper end of the size scale. The manufacturer sells it under the name Extreme XXXL Dildo PVC 34 cm and in English text Extreme XXXL Dildo 13 Inch. It’s part of the Get Real by TOYJOY series, it’s cast in phthalate-free PVC in a light skin tone, it has a suction-cup foot for handsfree use, and it’s designed with ridges along the shaft and a ballsack at the bottom. There is no motor, no battery, and no electronics—this is a completely mechanical product.

The specification looks like this according to the manufacturer’s own size chart: 34 centimeters total length, 29 centimeters insertable length, and a 7.5-centimeter diameter. The material is listed as phthalate-free PVC. The manufacturer’s item number is 10208-SKIN, and the EAN number 8713221827128 appears in the variant data on the manufacturer’s own product page—so it has been verified against the source and is not pulled from a shop text. In its own European shop, ToyJoy prices the item at 95.00 euros. In this market, no shop in our data sells it.

It’s also worth knowing already here that the shops’ information about this product differs unusually widely. Five shops list five different combinations of length, insertable length, and diameter for the exact same EAN. That question gets its own section further down, because it’s the single most important thing to have clear before you buy a product whose entire selling point is its size.

What does “Get Real by ToyJoy” mean?

Get Real is ToyJoy’s line of realistically designed products—dildos and dongs that are modeled after a penis rather than having an abstract shape. The series name appears on the packaging together with the caption by TOYJOY, and that’s why the same item shows up under two different brand names on retailer sites. Some retailers list it under ToyJoy, while others list it under Get Real.

This is not a cosmetic detail when comparing listings. The same EAN twice in the product data—once as “ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo PVC 34 cm Skin” under article number 73 and once as “Get Real Extreme XXXL Dildo 34 cm Skin” under article number 18367. So if you search for the product name instead of the EAN number, you risk thinking that you are comparing two different products when you compare two listings of the same item.

Behind the brand is a Dutch company. The manufacturer’s own instructions name TOYJOY, Bijsterhuizen 3151, 6604 LV Wijchen, the Netherlands as the manufacturer, and state that TOYJOY® is a registered trademark and trade name for SCALA 2.0 B.V. This is relevant because that is the address where a complaint case ultimately lands, if the shop forwards it.

34, 36 or 42 centimeters—why the figures differ

Here is the complete picture of what the five shops state for the same article number, side by side with the manufacturer’s own information:

• ToyJoy (the manufacturer) — 34 cm total, 29 cm insertable, 7.5 cm in diameter. The measurements are shown in the manufacturer’s own measurement graphic in the product gallery, and the total length of 34 cm is repeated in the product name.
• Product data — 34 cm total, 29 cm insertable, 7.5 cm in diameter. Exactly the same numbers as the manufacturer.
• Product data — 34 cm total. No insertable length and no diameter are published.
• Product data — 36 cm total, 27 cm penetrating, 7.8 cm in diameter. Both the product name and the spec table state 36 cm.
• Product data — 42 cm total, 34 cm penetrating, 7.6 cm maximum diameter. Both listings use the exact same product text word for word.

The manufacturer wins this kind of conflict, and what can be concluded is that the shop’s numbers are identical to the manufacturer’s down to the decimal. That suggests that the shop has taken them from the same source material that ToyJoy itself publishes. So you should rely on 34 centimeters total length and 29 centimeters insertable length, not 42.

Two shops have most likely mixed up the measurement points: their “penetrating length 34 cm” is the same figure as the manufacturer’s total length, and their total measurement of 42 cm has no equivalent anywhere in the manufacturer’s material. Another shop’s 36 cm lies in between without being backed by the manufacturer. The difference between 34 and 42 centimeters is eight centimeters, and for a product in this category, eight centimeters is not a detail—it’s the whole reason for the purchase. It’s exactly the kind of situation where it pays to go to the manufacturer’s side before ordering.

Measurements: 34 cm total, 29 cm insertable, and 7.5 cm in diameter

The manufacturer’s dimension graphic is unusually clear for this product category. It shows a silhouette of the product with three measurements: a line from the top of the suction cup to the tip marked 34 cm, a line from the bottom of the shaft to the tip marked 29 cm, and a diameter measurement in the middle of the shaft marked Ø 7.5 cm. The difference between the two length measurements—five centimeters—corresponds to the pubic area and the thickness of the suction cup, that is, the part that is never intended to be inserted.

Why insertion length is the number that matters

The total length of a realistic dildo says less than you might think, because a significant portion of it is in the base. Here, that portion is 5 centimeters, i.e. just under 15 percent of the total measurement. On products with a large molded pubic area, the share can be considerably higher, and that’s why a comparison between two dildos that starts from total length systematically favors the one with the largest base.

29 centimeters insertion length is a large measure in absolute terms. The comparison that’s usually made in this category is against the depth of the vaginal canal, and it’s worth being straightforward about it: 29 centimeters is significantly more than most bodies can accommodate vaginally. That means that, in practice, for the vast majority of users the product is one where you use part of the length and hold the rest in your hand—which in turn means that the grip on the shaft and the stiffness of the material matter more than the total measurement.

What can be determined purely geometrically is that a product with 29 centimeters insertion length and a suction cup has a use case that differs from a shorter dildo: it’s made to be attached to a surface and used with body weight and movement, not to be controlled with the wrist. The shop text from both sources describes exactly that use—attached to the floor, wall, or in the shower.

7.5 centimeters in diameter—what the number corresponds to

The diameter measurement is the figure that determines whether the product is relevant at all, and it’s also the measure that’s hardest to grasp in abstract form. 7.5 centimeters in diameter gives a circumference of roughly 23.5 centimeters if the shaft is circular—the circumference is the diameter times pi, and that calculation is purely mathematical and doesn’t require its own source. It’s clearly thicker than an average dildo and thicker than most bodies are used to.

The stores list three different diameters: one lists 7.5 cm in line with the manufacturer, two list 7.6 cm, and one lists 7.8 cm. The spread is small when measured in millimeters, but it shows the same thing as the length measurements: the figures in the stores are copies of copies. Start from the manufacturer’s 7.5 centimeters and treat the rest as rounding.

A practical note that applies to all products in this size: the diameter is not constant along the entire shaft. The manufacturer’s product images show an acorn that’s wider than the neck just below, a shaft that’s widest in the middle, and a taper down toward the scrotum area. The 7.5 centimeters measurement is the maximum measurement, not an average. That means the inside of the experience changes depending on how far into the product you insert it, which is the whole point of a shaped product instead of a straight cylinder.

The weight that the manufacturer does not publish

ToyJoy does not publish any weight for Extreme XXXL Dildo. The weight field in the manufacturer’s own variant data is set to zero, which in practice means the field has never been filled in, and there’s no weight value in the product text either.

One retailer, on the other hand, lists 2,175 grams, along with the package dimensions 130 × 297 × 486 millimeters. Two things are worth noting about that figure. The first is that it’s located under the heading “Additional information,” which in that type of store platform is normally shipping data — and the dimensions 130 × 297 × 486 millimeters are also significantly larger than the product and therefore describe the carton, not the dildo. The second is that a little over two kilos still isn’t unreasonable for a massive PVC cast piece measuring 34 centimeters with a 7.5-centimeter diameter. Treat 2,175 grams as a shipping weight including packaging until the manufacturer publishes a net weight, but expect the product itself to be heavy enough to be noticeable.

Weight has a practical consequence that’s rarely mentioned in store text: a heavy suction-cup dildo sits worse on vertical surfaces than a light one. The holding power depends on the vacuum under the cup and on the surface’s evenness, while gravity pulls straight down. On a horizontal surface like a floor or the bottom of a bathtub, the weight doesn’t matter at all; on a tiled wall, it does.

Material: phthalate-free PVC — not silicone

The material issue is the single most important line in the specification for a product that will be placed against mucous membrane, and it determines how the product should be cared for and how long it can be used hygienically. ToyJoy lists one material: phthalate-free PVC. The wording appears in both the product text and on the packaging, where the symbol body-safe is printed next to the suction-cup symbol.

Phthalates, PVC, and what “phthalate-free” actually excludes

Phthalates are a group of plasticizers used to make plastic — especially just softened PVC — flexible. The Swedish Chemicals Agency (Kemikalieinspektionen) describes them as substances that can affect the endocrine system and make reproduction more difficult, and several of them are therefore restricted or banned within the EU in a large number of product groups. That’s why a PVC product being declared as phthalate-free isn’t an empty marketing phrase: PVC is hard by itself, and if it’s going to be soft, something needs to be added. The declaration says what it is not.

What it doesn’t say, though, is what the plasticizer actually is. Phthalate-free PVC is plasticized with other substances — there are several alternative plasticizer families used in industry — and ToyJoy does not publish which plasticizer is used in the Get Real series. It’s a legitimate statement rather than an accusation: almost no manufacturers in this category publish that information. But that means that the material declaration here is less unambiguous than a pure silicone declaration, where the softness comes from the polymer’s own structure and no plasticizer is needed.

The stores agree precisely on this point, which is a good sign. One store has its own line in the spec table labeled “Phthalate-free: Yes,” two stores write “made of phthalate-free PVC” in running text, and another store writes “body-safe PVC free from phthalates.” No shop contradicts the manufacturer about the material.

What’s the difference between PVC and silicone in a dildo?

This is the question that determines whether the product is right for you, and the answer is not that one is good and the other is bad — it’s that they require different things from you.

Silicone is non-porous. A non-porous surface can be made completely clean, because there are no microscopic cavities where residue can get stuck, and it also tolerates high temperatures. Softened PVC is another type of material: it’s softer and more flexible in your hand for a fraction of the cost, but the surface isn’t non-porous in the same way and it doesn’t tolerate heat. The manufacturer’s own instructions set the limit directly at 45 degrees — the product must not be heated or frozen. So boiling and the dishwasher are out of the question.

The practical conclusion is that a PVC dildo should be considered a product with a limited lifespan, not an investment for ten years. It should be cleaned thoroughly after each use, it should be stored dry, and it should be replaced when the surface starts to become sticky, dull, or discolored — three signs that the material is aging. If you want a product that lasts indefinitely and can be sterilized, you should buy silicone.

There’s also an advantage to PVC that’s easy to forget. The material can be cast into large dimensions without becoming unreasonably expensive or unreasonably heavy, and in practice that’s the explanation for why this category — dildos over 30 centimeters — almost exclusively consists of PVC and TPE products. A full-silicone dildo that’s 34 centimeters long with a 7.5-centimeter diameter is a completely different price class.

Suction cup, strap, and hands-free — that’s how it’s constructed

The construction is simple, and that is a strength. The product consists of a molded shaft with designed ridges, a marked glans, a scrotum area, and a flat suction cup base at the bottom. The manufacturer highlights the suction cup base as the model’s main feature and describes it as what provides a hands-free experience. On the packaging, the function is marked with its own symbol, suction base, next to body-safe.

How does the suction cup attach, and to what?

A suction cup works with negative pressure. You press the air out under the cup against a smooth, clean, non-porous surface, and atmospheric pressure then holds it in place. In practice, that means three things. The surface must be smooth — tile, a bathtub, a shower wall, laminate flooring, or a painted panel work, while plaster, textured wood, fabric, and a rug do not. The surface must be clean and dry when the cup is attached; dust and grease break the seal. And the cup itself must be clean too, for the same reasons.

A shop also states that the product is harness-compatible, meaning that the base fits into a strap-on harness. That’s a store claim, not a manufacturer claim — ToyJoy does not write anything about harness compatibility for this model. That type of flat, round base in normal cases fits a harness with a round opening, but since harness openings vary in diameter, it’s worth measuring your own harness before assuming that. The competitor Pipedream, however, explicitly lists harness compatibility for its King Cock Plus, which shows that the information can be published when the manufacturer wants to.

How do you use a dildo of this size for the first time?

The most important advice is trivial but crucial: the size of the product doesn’t determine how much of it you use. A 29-centimeter insertable length means that you can use 29 centimeters, not that you should. A reasonable approach is to start with a fraction of the length, with plenty of lubricant, and let speed and depth increase over multiple sessions rather than in just one.

The manufacturer’s own safety instructions set the boundaries, and they’re worth reading: stop immediately if you experience pain, discomfort, numbness, or irritation, and seek care if the symptoms persist. Do not use the product on irritated, inflamed, or damaged skin. Check the product before every use and do not use it if it has cracks, tears, deformities, or sharp edges — an instruction that matters more for a molded PVC product than for an electronic one, because that’s where a defect occurs in the material.

One more thing belongs here. The manufacturer’s instructions state that products intended for anal use are designed with a flared safety foot and may only be used as intended. This model has a suction-cup foot that is wider than the shaft, but ToyJoy does not explicitly state that Extreme XXXL Dildo is intended for anal use. Different stores categorize it differently: one places it, among other things, under fisting and anal-related categories, and another places it under dildos with suction cup for women. When the manufacturer does not say anything, the safest approach is to assume that the foot should be completely outside the body throughout use.

Lubricant: stores contradict the manufacturer

This is the most important deviation in the entire review, and it isn’t about a measurement but about something that can ruin the product.

Two stores both write, word for word, that Extreme XXXL Dildo ”is compatible with both silicone- and water-based lubricants”. The manufacturer’s own safety and usage instructions say the opposite: use only a water-based lubricant, and oil- and silicone-based lubricants can damage certain product materials. The same wording appears in all ten language versions of the instructions.

One store follows the manufacturer’s line and even has its own row in the spec table: ”Recommended lubricant: Water-based”. Another store also recommends water-based lubricant in its product text. So, three of five stores agree with the manufacturer, and two do not.

Follow the manufacturer. What can be established is that a silicone-based lubricant that attacks the material makes the surface sticky and porous, and a porous surface can no longer be properly cleaned—it can only be discarded. A water-based lubricant dries faster and needs to be topped up more often, which is a practical downside specifically for a product of this size where each use takes longer. Keep the bottle within reach instead of switching lubricant type.

Cleaning, storage, and lifespan

Since the product lacks electronics, there are no compromises to take into account between tightness and charging contact, and the cleaning is therefore easier than with a vibrator. But the material sets limits that a silicone product does not.

So the product is cleaned according to the manufacturer

ToyJoy’s instructions are concise and unambiguous: clean the product before the first use and after each subsequent use, use lukewarm water with mild soap or a cleaner intended for intimate products, rinse thoroughly after cleaning, and let the product dry completely before putting it away.

Two details deserve to be noted specifically for this model. The first is the underside of the suction cup: it has a recessed area that collects water, and it needs to be wiped dry separately rather than just air-dried. The second is the veins and the structure in the cast material—the listing describes them as “structured, realistic veins”—which creates tracks where residue can end up staying behind. A soft brush or a finger with soapy lather along the shaft does more than simply holding the product under the faucet.

The manufacturer does not publish any water-tightness rating for this model, and it also isn’t needed: the instruction’s IP section applies to products with battery compartments, charging ports, and protective caps. A one-piece molded product without electronics has no openings to protect and can be rinsed without further ado. Another store listing also states “Water-resistant: Yes” in its spec table, which in this case is a reasonable store description rather than a rating.

Storage: why it can’t be kept right up against other toys

The manufacturer’s instructions include guidance that few store texts mention and that is especially relevant for PVC: store products made of different materials separately to prevent material reactions. The reason is that plasticizers can migrate between two plastic materials that are in contact with each other for a long time, leading to sticky surfaces and discoloration.

Other instructions are the usual ones: store in a clean, dry, and dust-free place, avoid prolonged direct sunlight, high heat, and moisture, and it’s a good idea to use a bag or a separate storage box. A cotton bag or a clean sheet is enough. No storage bag is included—the manufacturer lists no included contents other than the product, and the packaging is a transparent blister that isn’t made to be resealed.

Dust is also a bigger problem with PVC than with silicone, because over time the surface easily becomes slightly sticky, and then fibers and particles bind to it. That’s one of the reasons why a protective bag is worth it for a product of this size, which can hardly fit in a drawer.

Safety: what the manufacturer’s instructions actually say

ToyJoy publishes a multilingual safety and user instruction in PDF form on its website. The document is written for the brand’s intimate products and includes several instructions that apply whether the product has a motor or not. The most important for this model:

• The product is intended for adults only from 18 years of age and is sold as an adult product—it is not a medical device and is not intended for diagnosis, treatment, or prevention of disease.
• Check the product before each use and do not use it if it is damaged, cracked, torn, deformed, or has sharp edges.
• Do not use the product if you are allergic to, or sensitive to, any of the materials listed on the packaging.
• Do not bend, twist, or stretch the product forcefully, and do not expose it to excessive force.
• Do not expose the product to temperatures above 45 degrees, and do not freeze it.
• Do not share intimate products with others without appropriate hygiene protection — on a porous material, it is a particularly relevant instruction.
• Keep the product and all packaging material out of the reach of children and pets.

What is not stated in the instructions is just as worth noting. It contains absolutely no model-specific information at all — no dimensions, no weight, no material code, and no item-specific instruction. The manufacturer consistently refers to the packaging for product-specific information, which means that anyone who buys from a store and throws away the blister loses the only model-specific documentation that comes with the item. Photograph the back before you throw it away.

ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo compared with the alternatives

Three comparisons are relevant: against the smaller sister model in the same series, against ToyJoy’s own longer but differently constructed Manhandler, and against the best-selling competitor in the premium segment for realistic dildos. All specifications below come from the respective manufacturers’ own product pages.

Against ToyJoy Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm — the same product, six centimeters shorter

The closest competitor is ToyJoy’s own Extreme XXL Dildo 28 cm, EAN 8713221827111, item number 10207-SKIN. The manufacturer’s product text is word-for-word the same except for the size specification: the same Get Real series, the same phthalate-free PVC, the same light skin tone, the same suction cup base, the same veins and scrotum. The manufacturer prices it at 71.50 euros versus 95.00 euros for the XXXL model.

The comparison above is unusually straightforward: the choice is only a matter of size. If you’re unsure whether a 29-centimeter insertable length is too much, the 28-centimeter model is a more reasonable first purchase.

ToyJoy does not publish dimension graphics for the 28-centimeter model corresponding to the one available for XXXL. So the insertable length and diameter for XXL 28 cm can’t be obtained from the manufacturer, and the store figures that circulate for that model are of the same uncertain kind as the ones we’ve already gone through.

Against ToyJoy Get Real The Manhandler 38 cm — longer but a completely different product

Manhandler is ToyJoy’s longest product in the same product family: 38 centimeters, article number 10136, phthalate-free body-safe material, and two colors—light skin tone and black. The manufacturer prices it at 35.99 euros.

That it’s both longer and cheaper may sound like an obvious choice, but it’s two completely different products. The manufacturer describes Manhandler as a “sex wand” with a ribbed shaft and a handgrip-friendly handle in a police baton style. So it has a handle instead of a suction cup and balls. That means no hands-free use, no strap-on compatibility, and a completely different shape—an even smoother, less realistic wand where the lower part is made for the hand.

The conclusion is simple. If you want a product you can hold and control, then Manhandler is both longer. If you want the realistic shape, the suction cup, and the ability to use the product without hands, there’s no shortcut—then the XXXL model is the one to go with.

Compared to Pipedream King Cock Plus 12 inches—more expensive, shorter, better material

The obvious external comparison is Pipedream’s King Cock Plus 12″ Triple Density Cock with Balls, article number PD5723-21, UPC 603912762563. It’s 12 inches, i.e., 30.5 centimeters—three and a half centimeters shorter than ToyJoy’s 34. The manufacturer’s price is 99.99 dollars.

The biggest difference is the material construction. Pipedream specifies Fanta Flesh in triple density: a soft, skin-like outer layer over a stiffer inner core, to mimic an erect penis. ToyJoy’s product is molded in a single material with, according to Joylands specta table, a medium-firm consistency all the way through. What can be established is that a two-layer construction provides a different feel and a different firmness than a single-layer molding—which is also the explanation for the price difference.

Pipedream also explicitly states that the suction cup has been redesigned for better adhesion, and that the base is strap-on compatible. However Pipedream neither publishes insertion length, diameter, or weight for its model, while ToyJoy publishes two out of three. Based on the information provided, ToyJoy wins on the recorded data; Pipedream wins on material construction.

No price data is available for this market in our dataset. No shop in our data sells the item in this market.

In this market, no shop in our data sells ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo 34 cm.

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That the price spread is so large isn’t because any store sells another variant. All listings are tied to the same EAN, and the product is only sold in one color and one size under that number. In this market, no shop in our data sells the product. So it’s a product you may want to check across multiple stores on the same day instead of relying on an earlier comparison.

Who is ToyJoy Extreme XXXL Dildo for—and who isn’t it for?

It’s for you if you deliberately look for a product at the extreme end of the size scale and already know that that category works for you. It’s for you if you want hands-free use via a suction cup rather than something to hold. It’s for you if you want a realistic shape with veins and a scrotum instead of an abstract rod. And it’s for you if you want that size in 34 centimeters of declared phthalate-free PVC, which is a low threshold compared to what corresponding measurements cost in silicone.

It doesn’t fit you if you want a material that can be boiled or washed in the dishwasher. PVC has a temperature limit of 45 degrees according to the manufacturer, and therefore sterilization is out of the question. It doesn’t fit you if you use silicone-based lubricant—the manufacturer advises against it, and two of the shops that claim otherwise are wrong. It doesn’t fit you if you want a product with a long, documented service life, because there is no manufacturer warranty beyond the statutory one and the material ages. And it doesn’t fit you if you want exact specifications—the weight is not published, the softener is not published, and the SEL compatibility is not published by the manufacturer.

One final thing belongs in the decision, and it has to do with expectations. The store information about this product varies so much that the risk is significant that you’ll order under the impression that you’ll get 42 centimeters and instead get 34. Eight centimeters is a lot in this context. Base your expectations on the manufacturer’s figures, not the store’s heading—then your expectation will be the same as the product’s.

Warranty, complaints, and right of withdrawal

ToyJoy does not provide any voluntary manufacturer warranty for this product. The instruction expressly states that the product is covered by the applicable statutory warranty, that it covers material and manufacturing defects during normal use, and that proof of purchase is required for a claim. Normal wear and tear, accidental damage, improper use, lack of care, modifications of your own, and damage caused by not following the instruction are not covered.

The fact that the manufacturer provides nothing beyond what the law requires is actually a reasonable position for a product of molded plastic with no moving parts: the most common reason why such a product is taken out of use is that the material ages, and material aging is by definition normal wear and tear. What matters to you as a buyer is therefore not the manufacturer’s warranty but the EU/EEA consumer-rights rules—for example, the seller is liable for defects that exist at delivery and appear within at least 2 years—and they apply regardless of what the manufacturer writes.

Under EU and EEA consumer rules, the seller is liable for defects that exist at delivery and appear within at least 2 years (the legal guarantee). A defect is something that was already there at the time of delivery—such as a crack in the casting material, a suction cup that doesn’t hold, or discoloration that isn’t due to use.

For online purchases in the EU and EEA, consumers generally have a 14-day right of withdrawal, starting when the goods are received. Under EU rules, sealed goods that are not suitable for return for health or hygiene reasons are exempt from the right of withdrawal once unsealed—so a sex toy in blister packaging is a prime example of that category of goods. The right to complain about defects, however, always applies, whether the package has been opened or not.