TOYZ4LOVERS Secret Lover Anal Vibrator: review

Toyz4Lovers Secret Lover — in brief, here’s what you get

Secret Lover Anal Vibrator is a prostate stimulator made of silicone with a wireless remote control, and it is in the cheaper half of the category. The manufacturer is MSX Srl in Guidonia Montecelio, outside Rome; the company behind the Toyz4Lovers brand. The item is included in the brand’s Dark Side series under article number 00701630. In Sweden, it is sold by four stores at prices between 299 and 599 SEK, and three of them had it in stock at the price check on September 12, 2026.

The specification is brief, and that in itself is the most important observation about this product. The manufacturer lists silicone as the material, length 12 centimeters, maximum diameter 3 centimeters, a rechargeable battery included, a wireless remote control, and that the product is waterproof. The package measures 20 × 12 × 4.5 centimeters and is a cardboard box. The manufacturer’s own product data lists the weight as 147 grams. That’s where the information ends: Toyz4Lovers does not publish the number of vibration modes, the battery capacity, the operating time, the charging time, any IP rating, or any sound level, either on the distribution site msxdistribution.com or in the brand’s own consumer shop Pepemio , either.

This review is about the item with EAN 8056389733970, which all four Swedish stores list under the same number. There is only one color—black—and only one size, so there’s no variant mix-up to keep track of. However, there is a name mix-up, and we address that in the next section.

What is a prostate stimulator with a wireless remote control—and how does it differ from a regular anal plug?

A prostate stimulator is an anal sex toy whose shape is intended to apply pressure to the prostate, the gland located approximately five to ten centimeters inside the abdominal side of the rectum. What distinguishes a prostate stimulator from a regular anal plug is the curve: the shaft is bent so that the tip points toward the abdominal side when the product is in place, instead of going straight in. The Secret Lovers profile in the manufacturer’s own images shows exactly this design—a slightly curved shaft with a rounded, somewhat flattened tip.

The remote control is the second half of the construction. The manufacturer states that the vibration program is selected from the small wireless remote control that is included, and Vuxenkul indicates in its own specification that the control options are both buttons and a wireless remote control. This matches the manufacturer’s photo of the underside of the base, where an embossed on/off symbol sits next to the charging contact. So you can control the product both on the body and from a distance, and that is the whole point of a model like this: a plug with a flared base is designed to stay in place without being held, and then a button that sits under the body is pretty much useless.

What can be established purely in principle is that an anal product sets a requirement that no other product category sets quite as strictly: it must have a retainer that is wider than the body opening, because the rectum has a suctioning movement and a product without a retainer can be pulled inward. Secret Lover has a T-shaped base that is noticeably wider than the shaft of the manufacturer’s images. That detail weighs more than every single functional item in the specification, and it comes back a bit further down in the text.

Secret Lover or Secret Little Lover — what is the product actually called?

All four Swedish stores sell the product as "Secret Lover Anal Vibrator", and the manufacturer’s catalog entry is "Vibratore anale Secret lover". But in the manufacturer’s own packaging photo for the same item number, 00701630, it says SECRET LITTLE LOVER under the DARKSIDE series mark. The image file is named after the item number and therefore belongs to this specific item.

In practice, that means the cardboard box you get at home will likely carry a different name than the product page you ordered from. It is not an indication of the wrong item — the EAN, item number, dimensions, and material match all the way from the manufacturer’s product data to the Swedish stores’ specification fields — but it is worth knowing before you have time to worry when unpacking. The only practical consequence is that searching for the packaging name yields almost no results with Swedish retailers, while searching for the EAN yields all four.

A second ambiguity in the manufacturer’s own product data deserves a mention. The function labeling on both msxdistribution.com and Pepemio lists the icons rechargeable battery, prostate, telecomandato, vibrazione, waterproof — och suzione, alltså sug. Nothing in the product description, in the images, or in any of the four Swedish stores’ texts supports that the product would have any suction function. It looks like a mislabeling in the manufacturer’s product database, and it is exactly the kind of error that gets carried over into store text if no one pauses and reads it. Expect vibration, nothing else.

Materials and build quality: silicone all the way through

The material question is the only property of an anal product that neither experience nor care can compensate for, and it determines whether the product can still be cleaned hygienically after two years. Here is the verdict, unambiguous: the manufacturer states silicone as the only material, without a split between the shaft and the base. All four Swedish shops repeat the same information — Blush Me writes "high-quality silicone", Vuxen writes "Silicone" in the materials field and describes the surface as "skin-friendly silicone material", Vuxenkul and SexleksakerOutlet write "Silikon".

What silicone means for an anal toy

Silicone is non-porous. A non-porous surface can be cleaned, because there are no microscopic cavities where residue can get trapped between uses. For a product that goes into the rectum, this is not a matter of convenience but a hygiene issue: intestinal flora in a porous surface cannot be washed away—only thrown out. That is why the material declaration weighs more than almost every other line in the specification for this particular product type.

The alternatives in the cheap end of the category are TPE and soft plasticized PVC, often sold as "jellygummi". Both are softer and cheaper, and both are, in practice, impossible to disinfect because the surface is porous. That Toyz4Lovers lists silicone plainly throughout, without distinguishing between a silicone-coated surface and a hard plastic core, is therefore the single strongest line in this specification. Compare with Lelo Hugo 2, which costs several times more and which Lelo lists as body-friendly silicone and ABS plastic — meaning two materials, where the plastic sits where the silicone does not.

What the manufacturer, on the other hand, does not publish is the hardness of the silicone, usually stated as Shore A. The difference between a soft and a firm plug is significant for someone who is not used to it, and you can’t read it out from the word "silicone". The manufacturer’s and the shops’ descriptions point in the direction of soft — Pepemio writes that the product is soft to the touch with a smooth surface — but that is a description, not a measured value, and there is no published figure to hang it on.

Phthalates, BPA and latex — what the manufacturer declares and does not

Phthalates are a group of plasticizers used to make plastic, especially soft plasticized PVC, flexible. Kemikalieinspektionen describes them as substances that can affect the hormone system and make reproduction more difficult, and several of them are therefore restricted or prohibited within the EU in a large number of products. This particular product category is a recurring target of supervision, because it contains soft plastic against the mucous membrane.

Toyz4Lovers has a phthalate declaration, but only in one place. In the brand’s own consumer store Pepemio, it says that the product is made of "hypoallergenic silicone of good quality and free from phthalates". On the distribution site’s product page, there is no corresponding sentence, and none of the four Swedish stores prints it out either. The manufacturer does not publish any BPA or latex declaration at all, anywhere.

What can be established as a matter of fact is that silicone does not need phthalate plasticizers to become soft—the softness comes from the polymer’s own structure—and a silicone product is therefore, in the first place, a better material statement than a TPE or PVC product, regardless of what the manufacturer writes in its marketing. The declaration on Pepemio supports that, but it’s on a consumer store and not in a technical data sheet, and Toyz4Lovers publishes no such data sheet for this article.

Measurements and weight: 12 centimeters, 3 centimeters in diameter — and what the numbers don’t say

The manufacturer states a length of 12 centimeters and a diameter of 3 centimeters, and all four Swedish stores repeat exactly the same two figures. There is unusually strong agreement in this category, where stores otherwise often mix up total length with insertable length. Vuxen also specifies its listing as "total length 12 cm" and "maximum diameter 3 cm", which confirms how the measurements are meant to be read.

But total length is not the same as insertable length, and neither the manufacturer nor any store publishes insertable length. In the manufacturer’s own images, the T-shaped base runs across the base of the shaft and takes up a noticeable part of the product’s total height. So expect that the part that actually goes in is shorter than 12 centimeters, without it being possible to say by how much. For a category where the difference between 8 and 12 centimeters is large, this is a real gap in the information.

The weight is listed in the manufacturer’s product data: 147 grams. The information is not specified to refer to the product by itself or the entire shipment including packaging, remote control, and a USB cable, and since the packaging measures 20 × 12 × 4.5 centimeters, it’s reasonable to treat the figure as a shipping weight until the manufacturer states what it refers to. As a comparison, the manufacturer lists 115 grams for the sibling model Secret Soulmate, which is the same type of product without a remote control, while Lelo lists 121 grams as net weight for Hugo 2 and Pretty Love lists 90 grams for Warren.

Three centimeters in maximum diameter places the product in the mid-tier. That’s noticeably more than a beginner plug at 2 centimeters and clearly less than the chunky plugs in the category. SexleksakerOutlet describes it as “perfect for beginners,” and Vuxen says it’s suitable for “both beginners and experienced users.” These are store wordings, not manufacturer claims, and three centimeters is, in practice, a size that assumes plenty of lube and calm insertion rather than a first anal product at all.

Design: the T-base is the most important detail

If I can only look at one feature of an anal product, it should be the base. The manufacturer’s product photos show a clear T-shape: the shaft goes down into a transverse, oblong plate that’s wider than the shaft in two directions and narrower in two, meaning it’s a classic anchor shape rather than a round disk.

Why an anal sex toy needs a safety stop — and what the T-shape adds

The rectum pulls inward. Unlike the vagina, it isn’t a dead-end, and a product without a stop can therefore disappear past the outer anal sphincter. This isn’t a theoretical problem; it’s the most common cause of emergency visits connected to this product category. A stop that’s wider than the opening is therefore not a convenience but a safety requirement, and an anal product without a safety stop should never be used anally, no matter how good it is otherwise.

The Secret Lovers base meets the requirement with good margin relative to the shaft’s 3 centimeters. The T-shape also has a practical advantage over a round plate: a round disk with the same width presses equally in all directions and becomes uncomfortable to sit or lie on, while an oblong anchor shape can be placed lengthwise in the body so that the narrower arm sits where the pressure will be greatest. It’s the same principle Lelo uses on Hugo 2, whose base is also wider across than along the length.

The base is also where the interface sits. The manufacturer’s close-up of the underside shows an embossed on/off symbol and, next to it, a round connection labeled DC. Having the button in the base means the product can be turned on and off without the remote control, which Vuxenkul also states in its specification field. Having the connection in the same surface, however, has consequences for water resistance, and we get to that further down.

The curve and the tip — how the shape is intended to reach the prostate

The manufacturer describes the product as shaped to reach and stimulate the prostate, with a slightly bent shape and a rounded tip. The images show a shaft that curves from the base up into an oblong, somewhat flattened tip — in other words, a shape that rests against the front (belly-side) rather than pointing straight in.

What can be determined about the design is that it is one-piece molded and unsegmented. There are no beads, no ribs, and no seams along the shaft, which has two consequences. The first is hygienic: a smooth, seam-free surface is easier to clean than a beaded one, since there are no indentations where residue can collect. The second is tactile: a smooth plug provides an even pressure without the recurring passages that beaded models provide during movement. What one prefers is a matter of taste, but it is a real difference compared with beaded alternatives in the same price range.

The manufacturer also states that the grip is ergonomic and that the product is easy to handle. It is a marketing phrase without any measurements behind it, and it should be read as such. What can, however, be read from the pictures is that the base is large enough to be held between two fingers, which matters for insertion and removal.

The remote control and vibration modes

The remote control is the product’s clearest selling point and at the same time the part where the manufacturer’s documentation is thinnest. From the manufacturer’s packaging photo, it appears to be an elongated black case with a single round touch area in a brass color and an on/off symbol in the middle. The manufacturer states that you choose the desired vibration program from the remote control.

How many vibration modes does Toyz4Lovers Secret Lover have?

The manufacturer does not publish the number of vibration modes, and none of the four Swedish stores states any number either. The formulations that are available are qualitative: the manufacturer writes that you choose the desired program, Vuxenkul writes that you can switch between several modes, and Vuxen and Blush Me only write “strong vibrations” and “intense vibrations,” respectively.

It is a striking omission, because the number of modes is the first thing most people compare. The fact that it is missing is also information in itself: products where the number of programs is a selling point usually have the number printed on the box. Here it is neither shown in the packaging photo nor in any of the manufacturer’s data fields. Compare with Pretty Love, which for Warren in the same price range states 12 vibration functions plus 12 shock functions and prints both numbers in its specification field.

If you find a store text that states an exact number of modes for Secret Lover, then it therefore does not come from the manufacturer. Treat the number as unverified until Toyz4Lovers publishes it.

Range, the remote control’s battery, and what happens if it gets lost

All three pieces of information that a buyer would reasonably want are missing. The remote control’s range in meters is not published, which radio technology it uses is not published, and which battery it has is not published—neither by the manufacturer nor by any store.

It plays a practical role. Pretty Love cites for Warren that the product is charged via USB while the remote control is powered by an AAA battery, and that’s a useful point: it says that the remote control can be recharged with a battery from the box in the kitchen instead of having to be charged. For Secret Lover, it can’t be determined whether the remote control has a coin-cell battery, an AAA battery, or its own rechargeable power, and therefore neither what happens when it runs out.

Just as unclear is what applies if the remote control is lost. Since the product has an on/off button in the base, it won’t become unusable, but the functions that are only accessible from the remote control will. The manufacturer sells no spare remote control for the item in its catalog. On a product that costs 299 SEK, it’s not a disaster, but it is something worth factoring in before choosing remote control specifically over a model with a fully featured interface on the product.

Water resistance: the manufacturer says waterproof, a store says no

Here there is a direct contradiction in the source material, and it’s worth stating plainly. The manufacturer labels the product as waterproof — the function icon is on both msxdistribution.com and in the brand’s own consumer shop Pepemio, and Pepemio’s ongoing text repeats that the product is waterproof. The Swedish retailer Vuxenkul indicates in its specification field "Water-resistant: No". Blush Me, SexleksakerOutlet, and Vuxen don’t address the issue at all.

When the manufacturer and the store say the opposite, the manufacturer weighs more, and that order applies here too. But the discrepancy should be noted, and there’s a technical detail that makes it more interesting than a simple typo: in the manufacturer’s own close-up of the base, a round connector labeled DC can be seen. It’s an open charging port in the housing, not a magnetic contact area and not a sealed solution. An opening in the housing is exactly what makes water resistance hard to achieve, and that’s the reason why more expensive models switch to magnetic charging.

What an IP rating is, and why the absence matters

The word "waterproof" is no rating. The standard that defines how waterproof a product is is called IEC 60529 and is expressed as an IP code, where the number in the second position indicates protection against water. IPX4 means protection against water splashes from all directions, IPX6 protection against powerful water jets, and IPX7 means the product is tested for submersion to a depth of one meter for 30 minutes. The difference between IPX4 and IPX7 is the difference between "can handle a damp cloth" and "tolerates being left in the bathtub".

Toyz4Lovers does not publish an IP rating for Secret Lover, either on the product page or in any datasheet. Without a rating, there is no verifiable commitment about what the product can actually handle—just a marketing term. Compare that with Lelo, which states that the Hugo 2 is 100 percent waterproof and also publishes a complete technical specification regarding that claim.

The practical conclusion is cautious: rinse the product under running water, but avoid submerging it in a bathtub or holding the charging contact under the water jet, and wipe the contact dry before charging. That’s the reasonable approach for a product that’s marketed as waterproof without an IP rating and that has a visible DC connector in the base—and it’s especially reasonable when one of the four stores explicitly lists it as not water-resistant.

Cleaning, lubricant, and storage

Rinse the product in lukewarm water after each use and use fragrance-free soap or a cleaning product intended for intimate products. The manufacturer explicitly recommends cleaning the product with a toy cleaner after each use. An anal product should also be cleaned right after use rather than the next day, because residue dries and sticks.

The lubrication question has a clear answer for a silicone product: use water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricant breaks down the silicone surface over time and makes it porous, and a porous surface can no longer be cleaned properly—it can only be replaced. Oil-based products such as coconut oil leave a film that’s hard to remove. The manufacturer recommends plenty of anal lubricant, and for anal use it’s not a tip but a requirement: the rectum produces no own moisture.

Store the product dry and separate from other silicone products. Two silicone surfaces that are placed against each other for a long time can react and become sticky. No storage pouch is stated to be included in the delivery—the manufacturer only lists the product, the remote control, and the USB cable—so a fabric pouch or your own box is something you’ll have to arrange yourself.

Battery and charging: rechargeable—and then the information runs out

The manufacturer states that a rechargeable battery is included and that the product is charged using the included USB cable. Blush Me lists USB as the charging type in its specifications field, and SexleksakerOutlet and Vuxenkul repeat that the battery is rechargeable via the included USB cable. So far, the information is consistent across all sources.

How is Toyz4Lovers Secret Lover charged?

With a USB cable included in the package. However, the cable’s product end is not USB: the manufacturer’s close-up shows a round connector labeled DC at the base, which means a cylindrical DC power connector of the type that usually sits on cheaper rechargeable products. Practically, this means that the included cable is product-specific—if you misplace it, no ordinary USB-C or micro-USB cable works, and the manufacturer does not sell a separate replacement cable for the item in its catalog.

This is the clearest construction-related difference compared to more expensive models in the category. A magnetic charging connector does not require an opening in the casing and is one of the prerequisites for a high IP rating; a DC connector requires a hole. That solution is cheaper to manufacture and is a large part of the reason the product can cost 299 SEK, but it is also the reason why the waterproof rating should be read with a caveat.

Runtime and capacity that isn’t published

Toyz4Lovers does not publish the battery’s capacity in mAh, its voltage, the operating time, or the charging time for Secret Lover. None of the four Swedish stores provides any of those figures either. There is therefore no basis at all for assessing how long the product lasts on a charge, and that is by far the biggest gap in the specification.

That competitors publish the information makes the gap clearer. Lelo lists for Hugo 2 a lithium-ion battery of 420 mAh and 3.7 volts, a charging time of up to two hours at 5.0 volts and 500 milliamperes, an operating time of up to one hour, standby time of 90 days, and automatic shut-off after 20 minutes. Pretty Love states for Warren that the product is charged via USB and that the remote control is powered by an AAA battery. With figures like those, you can calculate: without them, you can’t.

What applies generally to lithium-ion batteries also applies here. Capacity decreases with the number of charge cycles, and the cell does best when it’s charged regularly instead of being stored completely discharged. If the battery is replaceable or permanently attached, the manufacturer does not publish that, but on a fully molded silicone product in this price range, you should assume that it isn’t—which in practice means the product is used up when the cell is.

The same applies to the noise level. The manufacturer does not publish a decibel value for Secret Lover. Vuxenkul describes the vibrations as “powerful but quiet,” which is a store claim without any measurement behind it. Lelo lists, for comparison, a maximum sound level of under 60 dB for Hugo 2. A general point that applies regardless of model: place the product on a soft surface between uses, because a hard tabletop works like a resonance box.

Secret Lover compared with the alternatives

Three comparisons are relevant: against the sibling model in the same series, against a competitor in the same price range, and against a premium model that shows what your money buys further up in the assortment. All information below comes from each respective manufacturer’s own specifications.

Against Toyz4Lovers Secret Soulmate — same series, same material, no remote control

Secret Soulmate, item number 00701636 and EAN 8056389734557, is in the same Dark Side series and is described by the manufacturer with nearly identical text: a prostate stimulator with a high design level, intended to reach and stimulate the prostate. The difference is stated in a single sentence. On Secret Soulmate, it says that the vibrations are controlled directly on the product, while Secret Lover is controlled from the wireless remote control.

The weight information in the manufacturer’s product data also differs: 115 grams for Secret Soulmate versus 147 grams for Secret Lover. Since neither of the figures is specified as applying to the product or the full shipment, it is reasonable to read the difference of 32 grams as the remote control plus its packaging rather than as a difference in the plug itself.

So the choice between the two is not a choice between better and worse, but between two ways of using it. A remote control is right if the product is meant to stay in place during use, or if someone else is the one who controls it. Direct control is right if you hold the product during use — then a remote control is an extra item to keep track of and an extra battery that can run out.

Against Pretty Love Warren — same price range, significantly more published data

Pretty Love Warren is a different design — a prostate plug firmly connected to a penis and scrotum ring — but it is in the same price range and has the same main argument: silicone and wireless remote control. The difference lies in how much the manufacturer tells.

Pretty Love publishes 12 vibration functions and 12 shock functions, net weight 90 grams, package dimensions 190 × 145 × 47 millimeters, silicone material, and that the product is charged via USB while the remote control is powered by an AAA battery. Toyz4Lovers for Secret Lover publishes neither the number of modes, net weight, battery data, nor information about the remote control’s power supply.

What Secret Lover has in return is simplicity. Warren is built with a ring that is supposed to fit both penis and scrotum in one size, and therefore the fit is a risk in itself. Secret Lover is a standalone plug where the only thing that has to match is the diameter. If you want a clean prostate stimulator without a ring, Secret Lover is the easier product — but Warren is the product where you know what you’re buying before the package is opened.

Against Lelo Hugo 2 — what the premium price actually buys

Lelo Hugo 2 is in a completely different price class, and the comparison is interesting precisely because it shows what the difference consists of. Lelo states the dimensions as 104 × 107 × 41 millimeters, the insertable length as 72 millimeters, the weight as 121 grams, the lithium-ion battery as 420 mAh and 3.7 volts, the charging time as up to two hours at 5.0 volts and 500 milliamps, the operating time as up to one hour, the standby time as 90 days, the automatic shut-off after 20 minutes, the maximum sound level as under 60 dB, and two vibration motors with stated frequencies. The material is stated as body-friendly silicone and ABS plastic; the product is stated to be 100 percent waterproof, and the warranty is two years plus ten years of extended warranty.

Put this list next to Secret Lovers: silicone, 12 centimeters, 3 centimeters, rechargeable battery, remote control, waterproof. The difference in price is big, but the difference in controllable information is even bigger. Hugo 2 also publishes an insertable length, which Toyz4Lovers does not, and it is the only measurement that really tells you how deep a product is.

That speaks for Secret Lover: it is all-silicone without any ABS elements; it has a T-base with a good margin; it has a remote control; and it costs a fraction of the price. That speaks against: you buy a product whose battery life, sound level, number of positions, and actual waterproofness no one can tell you in advance. Is that a reasonable trade-off at 299 SEK? For many, yes. At 599 SEK, which Vuxen charges, the answer is different.

Price range: 299 to 599 SEK at four stores

Four Swedish stores sell the item with EAN 8056389733970. The cheapest are Blush Me and SexleksakerOutlet, both at 299 SEK, and the most expensive is Vuxen at 599 SEK. That is a difference of 300 SEK, i.e. a little over a hundred percent markup, for exactly the same item number and the same packaging.

The stock situation is unusually favorable for once. Three of the four stores had the product in stock at the price check, and both of the cheapest were among them. The one that didn’t have it at home was Vuxenkul at 342 SEK, so it was neither the cheapest nor the most expensive. That means that the cheapest price is actually the one you can buy at, which is far from always the case in this category.

An aside about comparison prices belongs here. Vuxenkul states that the lowest price over the past 30 days has been 489 SEK and sells at 342 SEK at the price check, while Blush Me and SexleksakerOutlet list 599 SEK as the regular price and 299 SEK as the current price. The regular price of 599 SEK, then, is the same figure as the fixed price Vuxen charges. It’s worth knowing that 299 SEK is a promotional price at two of the stores, not a permanent price level—but it is also the price that applies at the time of the check.

For perspective: in the manufacturer’s own Italian consumer store Pepemio, the item costs 32,90 euro. That’s about at the same level as the Swedish regular price and clearly above the campaign price of 299 SEK, which indicates that the two cheapest Swedish stores right now are below the manufacturer’s own recommended consumer price.

The prices in the table above are updated when the stores’ product feeds are updated, but always check the final price at checkout. In this price range, all four stores are below the free-shipping threshold, so the shipping cost is a real part of the total and can practically change the order between the two stores that have the same price.

Who is Toyz4Lovers Secret Lover for—and who is it not for?

It’s for you if you want a stand-alone silicone prostate stimulator with a remote control and don’t want to pay more than a couple of hundred SEK for it. It’s for you if you prioritize material and shape over feature lists: all-silicone, a smooth surface without seams, and a T-base with a clear margin are the three things that actually determine whether an anal product is safe and can be kept clean, and all three are available here. It’s also for you if you want to be able to hand over the remote control to someone else during use, which is the whole reason to choose a remote-controlled model over the cheaper sibling model Secret Soulmate.

It’s not for you if you want to know what you’re buying in numbers. The number of vibration modes, battery capacity, operating time, charging time, sound level, IP rating, insertion length, and the remote control’s range—none of that is published by the manufacturer. It’s also not for you if you want to use the product in the bathtub, because the waterproof marking lacks a rating/class, the base has an open DC connector, and one of the four Swedish stores lists the product as not water-resistant. And it’s not for you if you want to charge it with a regular cable: the included cable is product-specific, and there is no suitable replacement cable you can buy.

One last thing belongs in the decision. A three-centimeter diameter isn’t a beginner size, even though two of the stores describe the product that way. If this is your first anal product, a slimmer plug with the same type of base is a better first step, and Secret Lover is a better second. If you’re used to anal stimulation, though, three centimeters is a moderate size, and then it’s the remote control and the price that decide.

Warranty, complaints, and right of withdrawal

Toyz4Lovers does not publish any consumer guarantee with a specified length for Secret Lover. MSX Srl’s general terms are expressly directed at businesses and not at consumers, and the warranty section there only states that any manufacturer’s warranty, if applicable, must be enforced directly with the manufacturer and not with MSX. No warranty period is mentioned, and the brand’s own website does not address the warranty issue at all.

In practice, that means you are referred to your statutory rights, and in Sweden they are stronger than most voluntary manufacturer warranties in the category. According to konsumentköplagen (the Swedish Sale of Goods Act), you have three years to make a complaint for defects in the item, regardless of what the manufacturer promises or does not promise. For distance purchases, you also have a right of withdrawal for fourteen days under lagen om distansavtal och avtal utanför affärslokaler (the Act on Distance Contracts and Contracts Outside Business Premises).

Be aware that in practice the right of withdrawal is limited for hygiene products that have been taken out of a sealed package—Konsumentverket provides guidance on the exception, and an anal product normally falls under it. The right to make a complaint for defects, on the other hand, always applies, and it’s what matters if the battery stops holding a charge or if the remote control stops pairing with the product. If you have questions about what applies in your case, Konsumentverket provides guidance via Hallå konsument.

Feel free to compare what the competitors offer before you buy. Lelo provides a two-year warranty on the Hugo 2, plus an extended warranty for ten years after that. That Toyz4Lovers does not publish any warranty at all is not the same as there being no warranty—but it’s information that should be possible to find, and it isn’t.